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Old 10-27-2013, 10:26 PM
 
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I don't know if it's "okay," but I tend to think when women dress in very revealing clothes they probably want to be stared at.
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Old 10-28-2013, 12:18 AM
 
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I know most women don't like to be stared at but when a woman dresses in skin tight yoga pants and you can see the outline of the butt clearly and they then wear really revealing shirts that show alot of cleavage, then is it ok to stare at them?
Be careful when you make assumptions about what most women want or don't want. Staring is rude in general but if women were really that upset about having their butt admired in yoga pants, they probably wouldn't wear them. I have pretty nice arms and don't wear nice fitting t-shirts on accident. Same diff.
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Old 10-28-2013, 12:29 AM
 
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Anyhow, Staring and looking are two different things. Looking is acceptable but drooling isn't cool. I would suggest taking a picture since it last longer but that would be borderline illegal in my state.
Not that I'm some Adonis or anything, but occasionally I'll get the odd gal or gay staring hole through me and I'll be tempted to be a colossal douche and tell them to take a picture (in my best faux outrage of course) just see what they'd do. But of course I'm not actually outraged when I catch somebody checking me out hard.
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Old 10-28-2013, 12:35 AM
 
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No if it gives sexual pleasure to you.
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Old 10-28-2013, 12:44 AM
 
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I don't know if it's "okay," but I tend to think when women dress in very revealing clothes they probably want to be stared at.
But revealing means different things in different countries.

Small hipsters and a little top are not weared on gym because for showing skin to men but because of getting some air -> easier to train.

Why women should suffer of heat and over clothing in sports just because men does think training women throught sexual eyes and have sexual thoughts?

There is nothing wrong with training clothes, there is lot of wrong in men at gym who comes to stalk boobies and butts.

Gyms etc. are place to train, not a porn factory or brothel.
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Old 10-28-2013, 01:08 AM
 
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I know most women don't like to be stared at but when a woman dresses in skin tight yoga pants and you can see the outline of the butt clearly and they then wear really revealing shirts that show alot of cleavage, then is it ok to stare at them?
It doesn't matter what they wear, it is not ok to stare.
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Old 10-28-2013, 08:10 AM
 
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What a world if one needs permission to look at a woman's breasts.

Of course, there can be consequences: "Are you talking to me or my breasts?"
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Old 10-28-2013, 08:21 AM
 
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What a world if one needs permission to look at a woman's breasts.

Of course, there can be consequences: "Are you talking to me or my breasts?"
Look and stare are two different things.
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Old 10-28-2013, 09:02 AM
 
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I know most women don't like to be stared at but when a woman dresses in skin tight yoga pants and you can see the outline of the butt clearly and they then wear really revealing shirts that show alot of cleavage, then is it ok to stare at them?
Do it when they aren't looking. Lol
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Old 10-28-2013, 09:14 AM
 
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In my opinion, you owe them a 'courtesy glance' to acknowledge a lady's good looks. Kind of a way to both quickly admire and show appreciation for the trouble they went through to look nice.

Staring is rude and awkward though, and even if the girl was perhaps into you, you're almost guaranteed to creep her out by staring. You might as well be sitting there in a latex trenchcoat and derby hat, wanking away like a little spider monkey hahaha
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