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You could have another medical issue too. I went through a no sex drive period due to whacked out hormones. Then things changed and suddenly my sex drive returned. I had desire again.
I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.
My sex drive is strong at times--especially when I like a guy or I'm dating(like now) but other than that I don't tend to think about sex that often. When I was younger I had a ridiculous sex drive, I was on BC for several years, anti-depressants, and I was pregnant and breast fed for a year and lost my drive completely.
Had a chat with an attractive 23 year old women last week that says she wants to wait until marriage. She had sex in the past, but for one reason or another wants to wait till marriage. Pretty sure there are men out there that wouldn't mind waiting. I told her that it will be hard to find them. But no doubt in my mind that they do exist.
So are you saying that the probability of finding such men is asymptotic? Or perhaps these men exist only in a deleted neighborhood?
I am pretty sure I speak for all heterosexual men that there is no romantic feeling without sexual feeling. If the man does not want to have sex with you, it means he wants to be just friends.
Ok so I guess I've never had a real orgasm then--because I don't feel contractions, and pelvic floor and internal muscles contracting. Wow, the end does feel similar as it does when I was a kid. OMG so I've never had an orgasm? That is so embarrassing--no wonder I wasn't able to orgasm with my ex, I didn't know how.
Like I said traditional masturbation--I don't do. I don't want to start either, though. But at least I know that I probably just can't orgasm. I don't know if I should try a vibrator, and see if that works.
The chances that you actually can't have an orgasm are very small. It's much more likely that you just haven't yet.
Many men and women don't have their first orgasm until they are in their 20s. You are not that weird . There are some good non-porn websites and books that will help you.
Given your lack of knowledge about some sex stuff, I am wondering what you think 'traditional masturbation' is for women? It's not like porn -- most women do not use anything inside their vaginas, except maybe when they feel like doing something different for a change. And many women are much too sensitive on their cl*toris to stimulate it directly.
Most common is stimulating the clit by rubbing the area around it with your fingers or a vibrator. But there are lots of other methods! Just contracting and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles over and over works for some women. Or humping a pillow or the corner of a desk, or using a vibe on the G spot... I am telling you these to show you the range, so maybe you wont think your method is so weird, whatever it is .
Do some googling, not of porn, and figure out what works for your body. Then you can show a partner .
The chances that you actually can't have an orgasm are very small. It's much more likely that you just haven't yet.
Many men and women don't have their first orgasm until they are in their 20s. You are not that weird . There are some good non-porn websites and books that will help you.
Given your lack of knowledge about some sex stuff, I am wondering what you think 'traditional masturbation' is for women? It's not like porn -- most women do not use anything inside their vaginas, except maybe when they feel like doing something different for a change. And many women are much too sensitive on their cl*toris to stimulate it directly.
Most common is stimulating the clit by rubbing the area around it with your fingers or a vibrator. But there are lots of other methods! Just contracting and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles over and over works for some women. Or humping a pillow or the corner of a desk, or using a vibe on the G spot... I am telling you these to show you the range, so maybe you wont think your method is so weird, whatever it is .
Do some googling, not of porn, and figure out what works for your body. Then you can show a partner .
Women should know , its your bodies , not like the old days when all the fake stuff was necessary to build up a mans ego. What I would like to know , some women "squirt" violently . I never did know if that was a sure sign of an orgasm. ? The first time it happened with a woman I was dating , i almost freaked out , being so undereducated in the ways of the female body. How common is it , and what does it mean exactly , you know , the feelings ?
Ok so I guess I've never had a real orgasm then--because I don't feel contractions, and pelvic floor and internal muscles contracting. Wow, the end does feel similar as it does when I was a kid. OMG so I've never had an orgasm? That is so embarrassing--no wonder I wasn't able to orgasm with my ex, I didn't know how.
Like I said traditional masturbation--I don't do. I don't want to start either, though. But at least I know that I probably just can't orgasm. I don't know if I should try a vibrator, and see if that works.
Why on earth not? Most women can't orgasm until they learn about their own bodies and what turns them on.
Buy a shower massager.
Women should know , its your bodies , not like the old days when all the fake stuff was necessary to build up a mans ego. What I would like to know , some women "squirt" violently . I never did know if that was a sure sign of an orgasm. ? The first time it happened with a woman I was dating , i almost freaked out , being so undereducated in the ways of the female body. How common is it , and what does it mean exactly , you know , the feelings ?
I think some women can squirt without orgasming, just from being highly aroused. And for others, it is an extra-intense orgasm.
From what I have heard, people who have had both male and female orgasms (meaning they have had a sex change) say that female orgasms are way more intense than male ones.
Men can have a different, more intense kind of orgasm from prostate stimulation, according to first person accounts I have read on the web. Apparently it takes some practice and is unlikely to happen the first time, but is really mind blowing. And from the description, maybe similar to a female G spot or A spot orgasm.
What I really love to do with a FWB of mine, is to give her a full body massage with sensual oils.She squirts everytime and I love seeing her receive so much pleasure.
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. There are some good non-porn websites and books that will help you.
