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How could you have a decent sex life with someone you had to force yourself to have sex with? This just doesn't make any sense to me. I could never be with someone that didn't desire me and I could never be with someone I didn't desire in return. To me, a relationship without the sexual attraction is a friendship. It doesn't seem fair to be with someone that you have no desire for.
The last year or two I was with my ex, I had no sexual desire for him and did not want sex with him, but did it anyway. It wasn't as good as it was when I desired him, but it wasn't terrible either. Then again I never did climax with him, so maybe I just don't know what good sex is lol.
The last year or two I was with my ex, I had no sexual desire for him and did not want sex with him, but did it anyway. It wasn't as good as it was when I desired him, but it wasn't terrible either. Then again I never did climax with him, so maybe I just don't know what good sex is lol.
The last year or two I was with my ex, I had no sexual desire for him and did not want sex with him, but did it anyway. It wasn't as good as it was when I desired him, but it wasn't terrible either. Then again I never did climax with him, so maybe I just don't know what good sex is lol.
You should show your man what you want... I mean literally..... men are pretty stupid for the most part....
yes. I will admit though that sometimes I find myself bored with it(especially if its lasting too long lol, blame that on adhd). I go through phases where I find myself uninterested in it because its nasty(getting naked, sweaty, noisy, etc) and then I think about how embarrassing and humiliating it is, and how vulnerable and awkward I'd feel and then I lose interest.
Thats kind of the stage I'm in right now. I liked a guy, had strong strong sexual attraction to him, then one day envisioned what it would be like to have sex with him and how mortifying and embarrassing it would be and then I felt sick and lost interest.
That's really not a very healthy outlook on sex.
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yes. I will admit though that sometimes I find myself bored with it(especially if its lasting too long lol, blame that on adhd). I go through phases where I find myself uninterested in it because its nasty(getting naked, sweaty, noisy, etc) and then I think about how embarrassing and humiliating it is, and how vulnerable and awkward I'd feel and then I lose interest.
Thats kind of the stage I'm in right now. I liked a guy, had strong strong sexual attraction to him, then one day envisioned what it would be like to have sex with him and how mortifying and embarrassing it would be and then I felt sick and lost interest.
You might consider counseling. Sex is not supposed to feel mortifying and humiliating. If you want to a counselor can show you how to change that.
Yeah, been there and done that. And tried. We were together for 8 years, and never once did I climax.
Really???
I'd say you might need a little professional help... not trying to be snarky, but it isn't that hard to make a woman have an O........ unless something deeper is going on.....
Then again I never did climax with him, so maybe I just don't know what good sex is lol.
Definitely you do not.
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