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Eff leagues. I was the one who bought beautiful Indian, Japanese, and Chinese women to the streets of Brooklyn and had them in basement and rooftop parties dancing in front of the sunset to everyones amazement. I walked through walls and barriers my entire life.
In the persuit of women dealing with women, my most basic tips are..
Develop confidence and a personality. Think, and have interesting and insightful things to talk about.. This means upgrade yourself. Have a sense of humor. Walk like the black man.
The other route you can go is go after women with high interests in the things your specialize in. Meetup.com comes to mind. Women like men who can teach.
Take B-12 and/or Theanine if you have a hard time being social. Thank me later.
I do agree leagues are a bad way to think but I do think people subconsciously impose them when they determine their type. It's typically the most attractive within the confines of what they can get.
No, I don't think what people find attractive is very flexible.
Except for Hawaiian @ Heart.
Attraction absolutely is flexible. It can change with time, or it can change with an experience, a salient moment, or just a good dose of critical thinking. I can personally attest to this.
im not attracted to the girl at all , she is intelligent , had a good sense of humour and has her own business however so she is pretty perfect in every other sense
having an unattractive woman is still better than having no one
It's best to be clear with her then, and don't lead her to believe that you want anything more than a platonic friendship, because it sounds like she is attracted to you.
Let her know you are looking to date others and wish her well in her own pursuits.
Leagues are for people who think dating is a sport.
If you think you get 'points' every time you bed someone, and more points if they are prettier, then leagues matter. And your focus is more on the people you hope to impress than the people you are dating. It's basically homoerotic.
But for ordinary people, who date in order to find deep human connection, leagues mean nothing.
Wheter its conscious or not most couples are pretty evenly matched looks wise..of course theyres exceptions but for the majority its pretty evenly matched..
or they're not evenly matched but one person in the relationship provides enough incentive for the other to date them in cases where looks are lacking.
Wheter its conscious or not most couples are pretty evenly matched looks wise..of course theyres exceptions but for the majority its pretty evenly matched..
Attraction absolutely is flexible. It can change with time, or it can change with an experience, a salient moment, or just a good dose of critical thinking. I can personally attest to this.
Exactly it changes with age and mentally.
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