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Why are there so many men on the internet who are married, looking for fun, claim the wife won't "do anything"?
What's up with that???
So, do men prefer to settle down with less sexually (frigid) types? This seems to be the norm?
So what brings these people together? Did he have a fat wallet sticking out the back of his jeans? Did she wear a nice padded bra? Did the relatives say she was a nice girl?
I am really curious about this, because obviously, marriage isn't about sex at all.
Consider for starters that society encourages "waiting until marriage"..... Well now how are people supposed to know ANYthing about the sexual prowess of their partner if they don't engage in pre-marital sex???
They are looking for free sex outside of marriage.
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Originally Posted by nebulous1
Why are there so many men on the internet who are married, looking for fun, claim the wife won't "do anything"?
What's up with that???
So, do men prefer to settle down with less sexually (frigid) types? This seems to be the norm?
So what brings these people together? Did he have a fat wallet sticking out the back of his jeans? Did she wear a nice padded bra? Did the relatives say she was a nice girl?
I am really curious about this, because obviously, marriage isn't about sex at all.
Wifey has kids, she's tired after all her childrearing duties and keeping the house in order, maybe she gains some weight too, she stops feeling sexy and more like a mom figure, then she stops putting out. A lot of wives lose their sex drive several years into their marriage, especially when there are kids involved.
stats on sex frequency from a recent poll taken on women - after having kids
60% sex once a week
30% sex once a month
5% zero sex
5% wild variation on frequency
assumption of guys that get married is there is some sort of connection with marriage and sex. i know i know, where on earth did they get these wild ideas, that she had some sort of obligation or something. but that is what they think.
Maybe wifey is a hot MILF and hubby has let himself go. Maybe wifey isn't sexually attracted to hubby anymore so hubby's getting less nookie than he'd like. Then he goes out trying to get it elsewhere. Maybe wifey really doesn't care if he's geting it elsewhere anymore - less presure on her to have to give it up to someone she's not attracted to anymore.
Sexual energy can come from the "chase", the discovery, the newness...along with the freedom of being child-free/house payment free/etc., when you're younger and have just gotten together. All of the above, along with debt worries, in-law issues, parenting, etc. can deplete sexual energy. Not too mention one or both partners letting themselves go, once the conquest has been made.
Like anything else in life worthwhile, married sex takes effort and dedication.
Wifey has kids, she's tired after all her childrearing duties and keeping the house in order, maybe she gains some weight too, she stops feeling sexy and more like a mom figure, then she stops putting out. A lot of wives lose their sex drive several years into their marriage, especially when there are kids involved.
I think this is true, I've seem some of my friends do this. Its very sad. I don't think it's fair to the husband at all ~ I would think if a woman lost her sex drive she might go to the doctor and find out if there is a problem.
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