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Old 10-31-2013, 08:54 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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Originally Posted by timberline742 View Post
No, not one radio jockey. Did I say that? Nope.

Believe what you want to believe though.
What happens in a bar when a woman slaps her boyfriend or some creep for whatever reason?

What would happen in a bar if a guy slapped his girlfriend or some nasty woman hitting on him in a bar?

Answer that honestly and then tell me there is no double stanard. You fools pick and choose which double standards you want to call juvenille from your high horses. It's awesome.
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Old 10-31-2013, 08:57 AM
 
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He didn't escalate. You are allowed to meet force with force. There is no law that says if a stranger hits you, man or woman, that you need to bear hug that stranger. Nope. You can defend yourself with force.
I'm having a hard time believing that a man can't stop the average woman's further hits? I mean unless the woman is a jujitsu professional or has a weapon how hard is that??

If that woman came back for more even after the guy was swinging, then he must really suck.

There was also a video about a cop having a hard time arresting a 15 year-old girl who was trying to fight him. LMAO
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Old 10-31-2013, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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I'm having a hard time believing that a man can't stop the average woman's further hits? I mean unless the woman is a jujitsu professional or has a weapon how hard is that??

If that woman came back for more even after the guy was swinging, then he must really suck.
You are proving my point.
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Old 10-31-2013, 08:59 AM
 
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What happens in a bar when a woman slaps her boyfriend or some creep for whatever reason?

What would happen in a bar if a guy slapped his girlfriend or some nasty woman hitting on him in a bar?

Answer that honestly and then tell me there is no double stanard. You fools pick and choose which double standards you want to call juvenille from your high horses. It's awesome.

They either person would have their asses tossed out by security/bouncer/bartender. Seen it happen multiple times.

Neither are ok. I've never heard anyone say or imply that either was ever ok.

All double standards are juvenile. It isn't picking and choosing anything.
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Old 10-31-2013, 09:00 AM
 
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You are proving my point.

No, she isn't. You have the mistaken idea that if someone is hitting you that you are free to beat the hell out of them. You aren't. You are free to defend yourself only, not beat the heck out of someone. Usually the smartest thing is to leave the setting entirely.
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Old 10-31-2013, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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They either person would have their asses tossed out by security/bouncer/bartender. Seen it happen multiple times.

Neither are ok. I've never heard anyone say or imply that either was ever ok.

All double standards are juvenile. It isn't picking and choosing anything.
I've seen absolutley nothing happen to women who hit men in bars. If you haven't, you must not go out much. You are picking and choosing, because you are claiming that this particular double standard (one where men are disadvantaged) doesn't even exist when it so clearly does.
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Old 10-31-2013, 09:03 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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No, she isn't. You have the mistaken idea that if someone is hitting you that you are free to beat the hell out of them. You aren't. You are free to defend yourself only, not beat the heck out of someone. Usually the smartest thing is to leave the setting entirely.
I don't even.....you just put so many words in my mouth it's comical.

Done here.
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Old 10-31-2013, 09:09 AM
 
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No, she isn't. You have the mistaken idea that if someone is hitting you that you are free to beat the hell out of them. You aren't. You are free to defend yourself only, not beat the heck out of someone. Usually the smartest thing is to leave the setting entirely.
He has mistaken full retaliation for self-defense and they are absolutely different from one another.

As I mentioned before if anyone hits me I'll file charges on them (man or woman). If my life is threatened and I have no time to call the cops, then I'm free to apply force enough to get away. I don't see what's so difficult about this that Caddy and others don't get.
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Old 10-31-2013, 09:24 AM
 
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He has mistaken full retaliation for self-defense and they are absolutely different from one another.

It is young male thinking (that if you are threatened or touched that you can beat someone and call it defense). Sadly, I once had it, thankfully, I grew out of it. It's part of that wisdom thing we discussed earlier.

Even more unfortunately, some backwards states are adopting it into law under the "stand your ground" mindset.
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Old 10-31-2013, 09:25 AM
 
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I think if I was in a relationship with someone and it was getting serious and he asked me how many men I had been with, I would tell him the truth. There would be no need to multiply anything because I would be honest with him, just like everyone should be.
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