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Women have been conditioned to lie or lower their number because women who have a high man count are perceived as lower value.Just the way it is.
I believe this. Women are conditioned by society to lower their actual number to appear less promiscuous, less experienced and more innocent than they are. Some women will tell you their "range" number of partners but a lot won't tell you their actual number. They rarely do especially if it's a high number and/or their number far exceeds yours. She has to be totally comfortable with her sexually and revealling that info to you. I dated a super sexually aggressive woman 2 years older than me at the time who at 34, wasn't ashamed or embarrassed about telling me that she slept with more than 100 guys from the time she started having sex at 15. My number was well below hers and it didn't bother me that she had more experience than me. Some guys have serious issues knowing that the girl they are with has had more sex or slept with more guys than they've had girlfriends. It doesn't surprise me that they inflate their own numbers to avoid being called the loser of the group that's had the least girly action. Supposedly the guy who beds the most girls in high school or post-sedondary is the stud. A guy in the pub at university would brag about all the girls he bedded. Sometimes I would laugh because the girls he claimed to have been with I know wouldn't go near him. Some of the other girls he claimed to have been with is believable because I knew how easy they were.
Uh... no.If someone I am with decides to reveal their number, I would hope I have chosen someone wisely and can trust what they say. No game playing for me.
Same here. I've never lied about it. I had no reason to. I met my husband when I was 25 - so that's the last time I told anyone (and obviously my number hasn't changed since then). If I was still single and dating right now - I doubt it would even come up.
Number of partners question. Which is more accurate to you?...........I have found that most women can only remember the good ones anyway. The bad ones aren't worth mentioning
Whats good for the Goose. I'll go with that too!
I can't imagine asking or being asked. Hasn't happen since my 20s.
I have never been asked and I am 53.I guess everyone I know did not bother to keep the best posts and belts marked for every occassion. Cripes, if you care so much that you have to ask...........find a virgin or a tree stump, whichever you see first.......solves all your numbers issues.
I know my exact number-and if I am close with a guy, I will tell him that accurate number.
No multiplication or formula (based on insulting gender stereotypes) necessary, I'm a straightforward person.
Why ask the question if you Dont want to know the answer to ??
I mean , some stuff is just not worth mentioning. I've been with plenty of girls and relationships , none of them have I asked that question . OK.. maybe that one time in college when I was 19.
Had this discussion a little while back and the question of who's better at keeping numbers concealed and those little secrets best kept hidden.If a woman tells you the number of men she's slept with, you multiply that number by 3.If a man tells you the number of men she's slept with, you multiply that number by 2.What do you think?
Ah, but C-D has taught us that women reserve sex for only the top 10% of men, so that 7 of year for you is averaged out against 0 ever for the next 9 guys.
we've also learned on these threads, short men cant get dates, and half the guys cant approach a woman
so, that would put these stats in the negative!
and on the rare ocassion a guy does get a date, he has no clue what to do, or worse, tries to go for the promise-land on the first date, and strikes out altogether- and what if she has kids?
so, on the man side of the equation, multiply any potential partner by 0 and what does it equal?
thats right- online porn!
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