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Old 10-31-2013, 02:24 PM
 
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You have major issues. Ive never even had anything remotely close to that. I think it's a personal underlying problem

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You're a good-looking dude who's been on dates with hundreds and hundreds of women. Your comment is void. That's like my 7 feet tall friend who looks like a 20 year old Aragorn telling me he doesn't understand why I can't score with women who are ''10s'.

Issues? You should hear what the average guys are talking amongst themselves, if you think I have issues. These are established facts in the life of the average man.
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Old 10-31-2013, 02:33 PM
 
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Well, if someone repeats it often enough on an internet forum under different handles, it MUST be true!
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Old 10-31-2013, 02:36 PM
 
Location: Whereever we have our RV parked
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Retail stores. Women love to shop. Want to meet face to face lots of women? Get a job working part time working in a shoe store, shoe dept. of a major retailer where you actually service the customers and help them.
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Old 10-31-2013, 02:43 PM
 
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You have major issues. Ive never even had anything remotely close to that. I think it's a personal underlying problem

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Totally agree. OP is seriously living a very weird life.
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Old 10-31-2013, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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You're a good-looking dude who's been on dates with hundreds and hundreds of women. Your comment is void.
How do you know he's good-looking? Have you seen photos? Even if he is, why is his comment less valid than those from the scores of dudes with zero interpersonal skills who are always posting here?

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Issues? You should hear what the average guys are talking amongst themselves, if you think I have issues. These are established facts in the life of the average man.
Guys who are unable to get dates are no more "average" than super attractive guys who get hundreds of dates. Those are the two extreme ends of the spectrum. Average falls in the middle.
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Old 10-31-2013, 03:00 PM
 
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How do you know he's good-looking? Have you seen photos? Even if he is, why is his comment less valid than those from the scores of dudes with zero interpersonal skills who are always posting here?



Guys who are unable to get dates are no more "average" than super attractive guys who get hundreds of dates. Those are the two extreme ends of the spectrum. Average falls in the middle.
I've read his posts before I joined this forum. He's gone on hundreds of dates. Unless he's rich, he's not attracting women by having a super personality. That alone doesn't make women sexually aroused.

College, most of the guys, average-looking, most never went on a date. Post-college, average men, most finally meet women but have to wait months for the woman to put up. The women didn't make the men wait, before the met the average men post-college. How do I know? The women's past is revealed.
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Old 10-31-2013, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I've read his posts before I joined this forum. He's gone on hundreds of dates. Unless he's rich, he's not attracting women by having a super personality. That alone doesn't make women sexually aroused.
I'm an average-looking guy with an average income who has probably been on hundreds of dates. (Just guessing. I've had no reason to keep count.) Maybe he is, too. I'm not saying I'm the norm, but it's certainly not unheard of. It's really just about being someone women want to spend time with, which in my experience has very little to do with looks or income, once you get to a basic level of attractiveness (i.e. they can look at you without being repulsed) and finances (i.e. you can afford to go on dates).

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College, most of the guys, average-looking, most never went on a date. Post-college, average men, most finally meet women but have to wait months for the woman to put up. The women didn't make the men wait, before the met the average men post-college. How do I know? The women's past is revealed.
Huh? I think your "average" might be more than a little skewed toward well-below-average.
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Old 10-31-2013, 03:05 PM
 
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You're a good-looking dude who's been on dates with hundreds and hundreds of women. Your comment is void. That's like my 7 feet tall friend who looks like a 20 year old Aragorn telling me he doesn't understand why I can't score with women who are ''10s'.

Issues? You should hear what the average guys are talking amongst themselves, if you think I have issues. These are established facts in the life of the average man.
Haha oh please. Ive posted pics before. Yes. Now that ive got in amazing shape the last couple years I'm a bit above average maybe.

I posted pics when I was thinner and out of shape and I was like the poster child for average. My hairline is way back (always has been) I have a big forehead, a nose thats been visibly broken twice, and huge teeth.

I'm average at best. Even when I was out of shape, working construction making 1/3 of what I do now, I still got laid a lot.

I wasnt rarely getting complimented on my looks. Even in high school I was no star but I hooked up with a lot of girls. I was the class clown. I was fun and confident.

Its not all about looks. Sure getting in amazing shape helped a lot, but thats stuff most people can do. I still had lots of dates like I did at 165lbs like I did at 210lbs (tho I have a gf now)

Like I said. When I was 15-22 THIS ugly mug was never what got me laid. I wasnt repulsive but it was my personality.

Ive been shot down a ton but I can still strike up a comfortable conversation and know how to get the ball rolling. That's what does it. One of my best friends is 10x better looking than me and a dr. He is suoer cool but lost some confidence due to some work issues the last year and he can barely get laid to save the life of himself..

No one is saying looks don't matter, but they are far from the end all.

A lot of guys here couldn't get laid if theu looked like brad pitt. I could probably get laid more if I looked like Chris Farley.

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Old 10-31-2013, 03:06 PM
 
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I'm an average-looking guy with an average income who has probably been on hundreds of dates. (Just guessing. I've had no reason to keep count.) Maybe he is, too. You seem to have a misunderstanding of what it takes to get dates.



Huh? I think your "average" might be more than a little skewed toward well-below-average.

Well, to me dating is having sex. Forking out money is not dating. I've had that too. I've gone on dates, payed for it and then the women called their booty call on the phone to pick them up. Someone has to feed women, I guess, but that ain't me. I'm talking about going out with a woman, then sex.

No. I don't mean well-below average. I mean average looking men who fit the bill of what is average and do not get laid because women would rather spend their time with better-looking men, and what I mean by spending time with them I mean banging them.
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Old 10-31-2013, 03:09 PM
 
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Well, to me dating is having sex. Forking out money is not dating. I've had that too. I've gone on dates, payed for it and then the women called their booty call on the phone to pick them up. Someone has to feed women, I guess, but that ain't me. I'm talking about going out with a woman, then sex.

No. I don't mean well-below average. I mean average looking men who fit the bill of what is average and do not get laid because women would rather spend their time with better-looking men, and what I mean by spending time with them I mean banging them.
Ah. Yes...you definitely have issues.
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