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So month long relationship... the official "going steady" talk last week and the first uninterrupted weekend together... everything was going great... but ever since Sunday he's been incommunicado.
Sunday after he left my house, early in the morning, to do his domestic duties at his place I called later that day and no answer. I serenaded him (haha but it's something he hs wanted me to do... sing him a song) and sent him the song, no response.
Monday comes around and he sends a "morning my love" text message. I responded and after work called him... again no answer.
Tuesday comes and he send a "good morning babe" text. I responded and called later that night... again no answer.
Today comes and he sends a "good morning" text.
Now I'm of the mind that a steady thing, we've talked and texted multiple times every single day since we've started dating, only changes when someone loses interest. Right? I mean true this "odd" behaviour has only been ~3 days and there is contact intiated by him but a lack of actual conversation is worrisome right? I mean take off the love and babe, like his text today, and its the same text some of my good friends send me on the regular.
Plus he keeps saying he's scared to fall in love, but feel like he's fallen for me and that he likes everything about me... uhm ok.
SO
3 unanswered calls in three days?
Bare minimum texts... in the morning?
I mean how often does someone serenade you? Yet no response... and I do sing rather well hah.
Thoughts?
Since he's admitted to being afraid to fall in love, I'm guessing he's dealing with cold feet. He'll have to work through that. You could get him some warm socks as a joke, maybe. Lightening his mood might help him relax a bit.
Yes, i have and we're gay so married isn't the answer to the oddness.
Well, technically, he could still be married. It's not unheard of. I trust that you kow whether he is or isn't. Just wanted to point out that being gayand being married with kids is not out of the question.
The cold feet scenario just got better though. Could he be second guessing his orientation?
Cold feet... i dern know maybe but second guessing his orientation is very doubtful.
This lack of coummnication makes me apprehensive and it's distracting... but I can't talk to him because he is not answering or returning my calls. Last night after getting his voicemail I asked if everything was ok and why he is so uncommunicative... but as you read his response this morning was a "good morning [have a great day]" text wtf.... that's nice and all but respond to me right?
Sigh
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