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Right, of course. Resolving crippling social anxiety and learning how to properly interact with other human beings never improves one's interpersonal relationships. How silly of anyone to think that it might.
Just exactly how many men have "crippling social anxiety" as you put it? It's a very small number, even among men who are over the age of 25 who have no experience with the opposite sex. Like I mentioned earlier, most of these men typically hold stable jobs and lead stable lifestyles for the most part. The type of crippling social anxiety you speak of would not allow them to do such things.
It seems most of you people simply cannot conceive that unattractive but socially adjusted guy and mentally healthy guy cannot get with women purely because of his appearance.
Based on the number who post here about being unable to meet women? I'd have to say quite a few.
I was going to say about half! Sad, when a course of paxil or similar could help them see themselves as so much more than the "ugly" guy in the mirror.
I was going to say about half! Sad, when a course of paxil or similar could help them see themselves as so much more than the "ugly" guy in the mirror.
Just how is a drug going to accomplish that? And when you stop taking it what then hmm?
Kind of figured the response to this thread would be something along the lines of "screw those guys". Won't have the chance to start getting experience, because no one wants to take the chance, in turn resulting in a lack of experience, ad nauseam .
I think to each his own. I'm just not the one whose willing to give someone that chance. Been there, done that. It wasn't a good idea for me.
The amount of sexual experience is irrelevant to me on its own. Sexual compatibility with me is what matters.
Besides, when i consider the vast realm of sexual possibilities out there, i'm probably "inexperienced" in the scheme of things, tbqh.
I think it's pretty obvious, here and in the other thread, who is interested in exchanging ideas and who is having an emotional response that is keeping him from thinking logically. Snookums.
But getting you to drop your emotional attachments and think rationally is looking hopeless, to me.
The only one here having an emotional response and thinking irrationally is you babe.
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