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Old 10-30-2013, 10:17 PM
 
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I've seen some women here say that they wouldn't date a guy who is inexperienced. Why?

 
Old 10-30-2013, 10:27 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Floppage?
 
Old 10-30-2013, 10:30 PM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Maybe some women believe that a man with no experience may not have the sexual chops to do what needs to be done?
 
Old 10-30-2013, 10:38 PM
 
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The sex part and the relationship part are two different things. Some guys have experience in one but not the other.

If a guy is my age, mid 40s, and has never had a long term relationship (like, 10 years or so), that is a huge red flag. He won't have needed interpersonal skills. And there is probably some reason no woman stayed with him, something he is hiding.

With lack of sexual experience, there is the danger that he will think porn is real. Or that all women like what his one ex liked.

But for a woman who does not have a lot of experience,a guy who also doesn't is perfect. Two people in their teens or early 20s for example.
 
Old 10-30-2013, 10:38 PM
 
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Maybe some women believe that a man with no experience may not have the sexual chops to do what needs to be done?
More than that. If he is older than, say, 23 or 24 and has never even kissed a girl, I would think there was some kind of psychological or cognitive disability going on there. It's not the inexperience that's the problem, it is the troubling diagnosis. That is a lot for a healthy young woman to have to deal with.
 
Old 10-30-2013, 10:42 PM
 
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Maybe some women believe that a man with no experience may not have the sexual chops to do what needs to be done?

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Old 10-30-2013, 10:45 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Because they think that he will "suck in bed"?
 
Old 10-30-2013, 10:48 PM
 
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Because they think that he will "suck in bed"?
Or they fear he won't!
 
Old 10-30-2013, 10:50 PM
 
Location: Washington D.C. Area
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I've seen some women here say that they wouldn't date a guy who is inexperienced. Why?
It doesn't matter. A woman will only know you have no experience if you tell her. So find a girl you can practice with.. get the experience.. then move on.
 
Old 10-30-2013, 10:50 PM
 
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If he is older than, say, 23 or 24 and has never even kissed a girl, I would think there was some kind of psychological or cognitive disability going on there.
lol really?
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