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Old 11-01-2013, 01:13 PM
 
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Originally Posted by supermanpansy View Post
You talk to them. They like you. You like them. You go home with them, or they go home with you. It's not that difficult and it's been happening for centuries. Some use the phrase, "a one night stand". Although technically it can turn into something more. Is this really that difficult for some of you?

If it is, then it is time for another round!
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Old 11-01-2013, 01:30 PM
 
Location: Type 0.7 Kardashev
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Babe... Your enthusiasm is admirable, but "Force Recon" isn't necessarily (and in fact rarely does) "Black OPS" and nothing you've mentioned sound like black ops.

Black are where you go on missions the government doesn't admit to... Like cambodia during the Vietnam war.

What you've mentioned are just ordinary days.

Prior to Iraq (I enlisted early enough to see the "before and after") except for a few very specific missions we didn't do direct action. In fact, USUALLY if we fired a round e mission was a complete FAILURE!

Recon was more about gathering intel, and a VERY FEW "snatch and grabs"

Usually it was boring stuff like sneak into forrener countries and put markers out so the jets would know what to blow up... Or survey a road and bridges to see what type of equipment the infrastructure could support in the event of an invasion etc.

Now, one of the guys I went to ARS with DID get asked to join the CIA's private army (I was very jealous.... He was Dual cool... I wasn't) - he turned it down to use his GI Bill to go to art school.
But THOSE GUYS do black ops. (as does Delta etc)
Those are indeed called 'Black Ops':
Black operation - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

But they are different from the rather more mundane (relatively speaking) 'Black Operations' in the context of Force Recon.
http://armedforcesmuseum.com/us-mari...econnaissance/
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A Brief Look at Black Operations
FORECON black operations require direct action. Unlike the green operations which are out scouting to locate potential problems, black operations require direct action and are almost always carried out within fire support. Close air support is one vital skill that is often exercised in a direct action mission. They also provide protection or Personal Security Detail for vital personnel.
It's rather obvious (from her reference to 'green and black operations') that this is what lilyflower3191981 was talking about.
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Old 11-01-2013, 01:39 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Originally Posted by supermanpansy View Post
You talk to them. They like you. You like them. You go home with them, or they go home with you. It's not that difficult and it's been happening for centuries. Some use the phrase, "a one night stand". Although technically it can turn into something more. Is this really that difficult for some of you?
Yeah, it is. It gets jammed up sometimes before "you talk to them," or if it gets past that, it never gets to "they like you."
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Old 11-01-2013, 01:41 PM
 
Location: The Bowery
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Originally Posted by supermanpansy View Post
You talk to them. They like you. You like them. You go home with them, or they go home with you. It's not that difficult and it's been happening for centuries. Some use the phrase, "a one night stand". Although technically it can turn into something more. Is this really that difficult for some of you?
So has prostitution big whoop some guy paid for sex some guy met some chick at a bar live and let live don't really see the big deal.

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It's also worth pointing out that just because some sex is "free" doesn't necessarily mean it's NSA. One of my colleagues is in the process of figuring that out right now. As I mentioned previously, my job requires that I move around a lot, never more than a few weeks in the same city. My friend thought he had found a nice girl for NSA sex while he was here. Turns out she is married and a psycho and wants to run away with him because she luvz him. The situation is going to continue to deteriorate for the next few days and it could end up getting pretty bad. All the headaches could have easily been avoided if he had just relied on prostitutes like the rest of us. But he had to be a macho wannabe PUA like some of you on here. You reap what you sow.
Matter of perspective free in a monetary sense or emotional depends how you look at it.
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Old 11-01-2013, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Ro cha cha, NY
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Yeah, it is. It gets jammed up sometimes before "you talk to them," or if it gets past that, it never gets to "they like you."

What gets jammed up? Do you get nervous around woman. Is that what you are trying to say? Basically (and I've always believed this) anyone can get laid with a little effort. The key is effort. You aren't rounding any bases if you don't even talk to them. First step, talk to them. The easiest place to pick someone up is in a bar. Alcohol lowers inhibitions. With lowered inhibitions comes courage. The more you try, the easier it gets.
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Old 11-01-2013, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Those are indeed called 'Black Ops':
Black operation - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

But they are different from the rather more mundane (relatively speaking) 'Black Operations' in the context of Force Recon.
US Marine Corps Force Reconnaissance | The Armed Forces Military Museum


It's rather obvious (from her reference to 'green and black operations') that this is what lilyflower3191981 was talking about.
Actually, I think manwithnoname is accurate in term of what recon Marines do. But my brother did do one black op, doesn't mean he is more elite than regular force recon Marine. They don't get to select what ops they do, this is the point. By no means, am I suggesting force recon is more elite than other military branches. My brother taught me to respect all service men and women. I don't get to criticize any of them because I simply don't know what they've been through.

I am sorry for going off topic again, but My point is simply that not all military men buy prostitute. They (at least my brother's special unit) did have very strict orders - never contact local civilians.

My brother only did three ops. Not like he was in combat all the time. He was actually considered to be one of those peace time Marines. But he had to do training all the time including weekend. I never got to see him. I don't know all the military languages and I myself have never served one day in military. But I love military men and I support U.S. troops. I know my brother and his recon team, I know what they did (after I squeezed information out of my brother) This much I do know.

I am just sick and tired hearing people say military people cheat, lie, and buy prostitutes. That is simply untrue.

However, I do agree with manwithnoname. and He is a very decent poster!

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Old 11-01-2013, 03:15 PM
 
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Irrelevant. You miss a big point of prostitution for men - it's not to stay and have sex, but to GO AWAY after having sex.
You are essentially paying them to go away, vs. the free stuff with all the emotional baggage.
Well I've heard a very Large percentage of these men are married men so you do kinda have a point. I think the wife is less likely to find out if he uses an escort rather then a random Bootycall.

I forgot the name of the comedian, but I remember the guy saying something to the effect of

"I don't want an affair, I just want a blowjob"



But my point still stands, if you want a FWB you can get one. You don't NEED to be in a relationship with "emotional baggage" to get ass anymore
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Old 11-01-2013, 03:20 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I asked a beautiful Thai girl to be my lover, my amour for a few weeks of a certain month each year. There was fun, there was an UNDERSTANDING. Sex was hardly the agenda. She came from a poor background and the bare basic affordabilities made her content(no expensive gifts and stuff). In return I was getting a good supply of love, sex and understanding. We talked about astronomy, my business plans, her grandparents. And that was it!

Why can't we expand this idea on a larger scale? We are brainwashed and led to believe that this is right or that is wrong. Is it wrong in wanting to be rich? Hell, no. If I want to work hard and afford a life to distract me from nihilistic thoughts which lead to negative thoughts, why shouldn't I?
If I want to sign a contract of love in return of understanding why shouldn't I?
We sat on the beach and I came up with this business idea I want to implement and my outlook on life just changed. I wasn't stuck.

You can buy love, my fellow friends. If there is mutual understanding then there are few greater contentment. Someday when I am 38 and wanting to sit in front of my TV and get together with friends and family I will marry. But till then why can't I have diversity and joy?
Well, since our op has this fabulous business plan, what do you guys think?

Can men buy love from a prostitute? Since op believes the Tai chick provides unlimited understanding, and sex was never an agenda, what is the purpose of this prostitute?

He was paying her to stay or leave?
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Old 11-01-2013, 05:40 PM
 
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Those are indeed called 'Black Ops':
Black operation - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

But they are different from the rather more mundane (relatively speaking) 'Black Operations' in the context of Force Recon.
US Marine Corps Force Reconnaissance | The Armed Forces Military Museum


It's rather obvious (from her reference to 'green and black operations') that this is what lilyflower3191981 was talking about.
I don't know where that "armed forces museum" gets its info from... But you do NOT need to be "Dual cool" to do either recon, or force recon. (dual cool is both jump wings, and dive bubble) its a GOAL, (I was saposto do Both... But this thing called the Iraq invasion got in the way.) but it's not necessary... And, depending on op tempo... Many don't achieve it.
(my DD214 actually says 0321- Recon Man... You get a whole separate MOS when you Add jump and dive)

And... After 8 years in the Corps... Most of it as a 0321... I have NEVER heard at (what was it... Forcon? Abbreviation used... NEVER.)

Also never heard "green and black operations" used.... Except from the guys who were gamers. And they only used "black ops"


Oh, and.... When in the locations for it... Some guys hired hookers, and some didn't.
Just like any other slice of society.

But from my observations... The wives cheated much more often than the husband... Much more opportunity might of had something to do with it.

I find it amusing I'm discussion this as I sit in the VA ER waiting room for some reason....
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Old 11-01-2013, 06:35 PM
 
Location: USA
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love and sex doesn't come free; there's always a price to pay.
Nothing is free in this world, even if you are a bum on the street!
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