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Old 10-31-2013, 12:30 PM
 
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just because you hear them complaining about this or that about their SO doesn't mean they are unhappy in the relationship.
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Old 10-31-2013, 12:35 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Without prostitution the world would have a lot more angrier men.
I am inclined to agree.



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"A lot more," seriously?

I'm willing to bet the percentage of men who patronize prostitutes is in the very low single digits.

In the US, maybe. Worldwide, I'd say it's much higher.
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Old 10-31-2013, 12:46 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I feel sorry the OP has to go through such mental acrobatics just to enjoy the services of his prostitute.
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Old 10-31-2013, 01:03 PM
 
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Just like the girls dancing for him at a strip club. It is not about the money.
Exactly, finally...someone who gets it!

They probably just enjoy dancing. I mean when I take m wife dancing it isn't about $, but hey, if somone wants to stuff some bills in my pants I ain't sayin' no.

OP, these people are all idiots. Your prostitute/s love you in a deep and meaningful way. They also really like it if you cry immediately after ejaculation.
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Old 10-31-2013, 01:09 PM
 
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I'm willing to bet the percentage of men who patronize prostitutes is in the very low single digits.
I'd take that bet any day. But let's assume you're right, let's even assume that it's .05% of men.

That .05% would be the most angry and destructive mess of mofo's you've ever seen. No sex makes Jack a very irritated man.
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Old 10-31-2013, 01:23 PM
 
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I love to observe people. To study and observe the nature of individuals. I am a fantastic listener and there are certain observations I have made.
Without going into too much details on why or how I feel this way, I think that happiness especially when concerned with relationship and love is not just fleeting but impossible.
People are bound to get bored or sick of the other person with time. I see this among people irregardless of their nationality or race or culture....two individuals are bound to get sick of the others company.
This is the predicament of the human condition. With people, with places, with most everything unless you are too passionate about it(say jazz or travelling which can last a lifetime).

Say a city dwelling person desires to someday live on a pristine island away from the chaos of mainstream life.
He saves each day, looks at a picture of that island to inspire him. Finally he lands on his island.
Day 1: He is full of pure bliss. The sound of the ocean, the feel of sand between his toes, the air.
Week 1: He is happy to finally live in his paradise. He tells it to anyone he meets. He explores. He wanders.
Month 1: This is when the symptoms of redundancy kick in. He sits on the beach and wonders...okay...now what? what next.

Same with love and relationship. It is fleeting. The infatuation in the beginning is intoxicating but eventually it starts to wear off. A man and a woman will have many differences but that isn't even the point. The fact that you are with the person day in and day out wears you down. Add to it external issues and no wonder there is this thing called divorce.

What I am trying to say is that I see my fellow friends married, some even with babies(the ultimate burden that binds one) but I hear the problems and its usually the same everywhere. The only reason, I feel, any couple stays together is because of financial reasons or children, or other obligations.

Do you agree with me? I am asking you regarding the collective thought process of us human beings. No one thinks on this level, we are too preoccupied with our problems. But if you stand back and wonder, maybe the fact that we are not created to be satisfied is one reason people are so unhappy.

So, I went to Thailand and one sunny day lying on the beach thought of an idea: perhaps to help my fellow man. The transmutation of sexual energy!

THE TRANSMUTATION OF SEXUAL ENERGY, my fellow men. and women.
Most of us try to find peace in sex, in love when it is not possible in the long run.
So why not invest in it like a business transaction?
I asked a beautiful Thai girl to be my lover, my amour for a few weeks of a certain month each year. There was fun, there was an UNDERSTANDING. Sex was hardly the agenda. She came from a poor background and the bare basic affordabilities made her content(no expensive gifts and stuff). In return I was getting a good supply of love, sex and understanding. We talked about astronomy, my business plans, her grandparents. And that was it!

Why can't we expand this idea on a larger scale? We are brainwashed and led to believe that this is right or that is wrong. Is it wrong in wanting to be rich? Hell, no. If I want to work hard and afford a life to distract me from nihilistic thoughts which lead to negative thoughts, why shouldn't I?
If I want to sign a contract of love in return of understanding why shouldn't I?
We sat on the beach and I came up with this business idea I want to implement and my outlook on life just changed. I wasn't stuck.

You can buy love, my fellow friends. If there is mutual understanding then there are few greater contentment. Someday when I am 38 and wanting to sit in front of my TV and get together with friends and family I will marry. But till then why can't I have diversity and joy?
So, you went to Thailand and bought yourself a prostitute for a few weeks, and had a toes in the sand epiphany that this arrangement works for you. So go for it, no one is stopping you.

Buying sex then philosophizing about it is not exactly a transcendental experience. You're one of many men who can afford to buy sex overseas and have no problem with it. What's new?
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Old 10-31-2013, 02:05 PM
 
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It is pretty sad if one has to "buy" love or sex. Period.
The only free love men get is from their mothers.
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Old 10-31-2013, 02:12 PM
 
Location: City of Angels
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The type of work I do requires year-round travel. Most of us don't even bother maintaining residence anywhere and those who do are lucky if they spend more than a couple months per year at home. The majority of the guys I work with have slept with prostitutes (over 90 percent) and I would say at least half do so on a regular basis. But based on my experience, I would say the vast majority of them are looking for something a little more stable and permanent. I'm one of the only guys I know who actually prefers this lifestyle. It is not for everyone.

No reason to romanticize sleeping w prostitutes. I do it because I enjoy it and I fear commitment.
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Old 10-31-2013, 03:03 PM
 
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It is pretty sad if one has to "buy" love or sex. Period.
Are you going to tell the hords of workers in the sex industries that they are pretty sad that they sell their bodies for profit? I don't think so.

More young women are getting into the escort business these days and more guys are willing to pay for the service without all the wining, dining, waiting and dating BS.

Why pay for all the extras when all you want is the action itself? More young women realize this so they smartly they carry a price tag with them for certain guys. If the guy is potential marriage material, she might insist on a real date to see if he's worthy or not.
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Old 10-31-2013, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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It's only $60 at the Snuggle House!

$60 an hour squeezes will have to wait for Madison's Snuggle House
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