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Old 10-31-2013, 04:00 PM
 
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I would say the majority of prostitutes working in western oriented establishments in the Philippines are looking for a husband.
The key words are "western"...oh hell yeah they are looking for a plane ticket to the west. That's the jackpot for them. The locals, forget it, although they will still provide services to them.
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Old 10-31-2013, 04:00 PM
 
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Better? Porn and masturbation is better than a live woman taking care of your needs, paid or not? Are you kidding?!

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Certainly better than a live woman who only knows her own pleasure and cares about her own pleasure. Exponentially better than being dissapointed by a poor partner who priced their sexual bounty ridiculously higher than her actual performance.

At least with porn and masturbation, you can watch and enjoy the immediate sexual benefits without the other relationship headache stuff. In the dating world it's all about chasing and catching. Sometimes the chase isn't worth it and the catch leaves you a whole lot more dissapointed than when you started.
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Old 10-31-2013, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Who ever said anything about needing to pay for sex?
You mean you get free sex from prostitutes? Well, good for you then.
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Old 10-31-2013, 04:03 PM
 
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Well, it is pretty SAD that somebody have to pay for sex because sex is and should be free, all the time. Don't you think?
Sadly, women are pricing themselves out of many a good mans range so the lower, easier tricks on the are just as fun and attainable to these men.

You will never get rejected by a hooker if you have the money and show the money.

In the real dating world you will still get rejected if you have the money and show it too.
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Old 10-31-2013, 04:06 PM
 
Location: City of Angels
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You mean you get free sex from prostitutes? Well, good for you then.
No, that is not what I said, and you know it. I asked you a question. Can you answer it or are you going to try to change the subject again?
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Old 10-31-2013, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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No, that is not what I said, and you know it. I asked you a question. Can you answer it or are you going to try to change the subject again?
Answer what question? This whole thread is about prostitutes. Prostitutes involves with sex, business transaction, money. Does it not?
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Old 10-31-2013, 04:08 PM
 
Location: City of Angels
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Sadly, women are pricing themselves out of many a good mans range so the lower, easier tricks on the are just as fun and attainable to these men.

You will never get rejected by a hooker if you have the money and show the money.
What are you talking about? Prostitutes reject guys all the time.
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Old 10-31-2013, 04:13 PM
 
Location: City of Angels
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Answer what question? This whole thread is about prostitutes. Prostitutes involves with sex, business transaction, money. Does it not?
You can go to a restaurant and pay a chef to cook your food. Does that mean you need a chef to cook for you otherwise you'll starve?
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Old 10-31-2013, 04:21 PM
 
Location: Mishawaka, Indiana
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I love to observe people. To study and observe the nature of individuals. I am a fantastic listener and there are certain observations I have made.
Without going into too much details on why or how I feel this way, I think that happiness especially when concerned with relationship and love is not just fleeting but impossible.
People are bound to get bored or sick of the other person with time. I see this among people irregardless of their nationality or race or culture....two individuals are bound to get sick of the others company.
This is the predicament of the human condition. With people, with places, with most everything unless you are too passionate about it(say jazz or travelling which can last a lifetime).

Say a city dwelling person desires to someday live on a pristine island away from the chaos of mainstream life.
He saves each day, looks at a picture of that island to inspire him. Finally he lands on his island.
Day 1: He is full of pure bliss. The sound of the ocean, the feel of sand between his toes, the air.
Week 1: He is happy to finally live in his paradise. He tells it to anyone he meets. He explores. He wanders.
Month 1: This is when the symptoms of redundancy kick in. He sits on the beach and wonders...okay...now what? what next.

Same with love and relationship. It is fleeting. The infatuation in the beginning is intoxicating but eventually it starts to wear off. A man and a woman will have many differences but that isn't even the point. The fact that you are with the person day in and day out wears you down. Add to it external issues and no wonder there is this thing called divorce.

What I am trying to say is that I see my fellow friends married, some even with babies(the ultimate burden that binds one) but I hear the problems and its usually the same everywhere. The only reason, I feel, any couple stays together is because of financial reasons or children, or other obligations.

Do you agree with me? I am asking you regarding the collective thought process of us human beings. No one thinks on this level, we are too preoccupied with our problems. But if you stand back and wonder, maybe the fact that we are not created to be satisfied is one reason people are so unhappy.

So, I went to Thailand and one sunny day lying on the beach thought of an idea: perhaps to help my fellow man. The transmutation of sexual energy!

THE TRANSMUTATION OF SEXUAL ENERGY, my fellow men. and women.
Most of us try to find peace in sex, in love when it is not possible in the long run.
So why not invest in it like a business transaction?
I asked a beautiful Thai girl to be my lover, my amour for a few weeks of a certain month each year. There was fun, there was an UNDERSTANDING. Sex was hardly the agenda. She came from a poor background and the bare basic affordabilities made her content(no expensive gifts and stuff). In return I was getting a good supply of love, sex and understanding. We talked about astronomy, my business plans, her grandparents. And that was it!

Why can't we expand this idea on a larger scale? We are brainwashed and led to believe that this is right or that is wrong. Is it wrong in wanting to be rich? Hell, no. If I want to work hard and afford a life to distract me from nihilistic thoughts which lead to negative thoughts, why shouldn't I?
If I want to sign a contract of love in return of understanding why shouldn't I?
We sat on the beach and I came up with this business idea I want to implement and my outlook on life just changed. I wasn't stuck.

You can buy love, my fellow friends. If there is mutual understanding then there are few greater contentment. Someday when I am 38 and wanting to sit in front of my TV and get together with friends and family I will marry. But till then why can't I have diversity and joy?
I had to stop reading at "irregardless". You do know that irregardless is not a word, right? What you meant to say was, regardless. Irregardless, if it was a word, would mean with regard, not without regard as regardless means. The ir and the less cancel each other out meaning it's just with regard. Please stop using that word.
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Old 10-31-2013, 04:23 PM
 
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What are you talking about? Prostitutes reject guys all the time.
they reject guys?? because they are short??

see what you short fellas did??? you talked about not being able to get a woman so much, it went viral

and caught on
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