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Old 11-01-2013, 06:58 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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He could also be trying to play hard to get, unsuccessfully, You need to find out whats going on, or invite him out with you....try being more flirty or try and give at least one subtle hint you like him.
I think the OP was pretty obvious that she likes him. She let him walk her home, they kissed, she asked to hang out again, she invited him over.

OP, do a little more digging--find out if he has a gf. I get the prepaid phones with limited minutes but that can also be an excuse that he wasn't free to talk. You also invited him over and asked to hang out and you got no response. Then at school he sort of gave you a cold shoulder.

Ball is in his court. Don't ask him to hang out or initiate anymore contact. What did he text you after he saw you at the school review?
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Old 11-01-2013, 08:22 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Let me give you a piece of advice I wish I had really taken to heart when I was younger because it would have saved me endless hours of worrying and analyzing. Guys are simple. If you have to ask if they are interested, the answer is almost always no. A guy who really likes you will move heaven and earth to see you. If his phone runs out of minutes, he will BORROW a phone, he will use a damn pay phone, he will find a way to contact you.
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Old 11-02-2013, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Let me give you a piece of advice I wish I had really taken to heart when I was younger because it would have saved me endless hours of worrying and analyzing. Guys are simple. If you have to ask if they are interested, the answer is almost always no. A guy who really likes you will move heaven and earth to see you. If his phone runs out of minutes, he will BORROW a phone, he will use a damn pay phone, he will find a way to contact you.
EXACTLY.

BINGO

The sooner young women learn this, the better off they will all be
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Old 11-02-2013, 05:36 PM
 
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A guy who really likes you will move heaven and earth to see you. If his phone runs out of minutes, he will BORROW a phone, he will use a damn pay phone, he will find a way to contact you.
strawberrykiki's right. .....
Your friend sounds like maybe he's only comfortable in a virtual world. Some people are like that...maybe he just can't say things unless he's texting..which is also a convenient way to excuse his lack of interest/contact when his phone dies out...conveniently...
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Old 11-02-2013, 05:46 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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[quote=strawberrykiki;32047085]Let me give you a piece of advice I wish I had really taken to heart when I was younger because it would have saved me endless hours of worrying and analyzing. Guys are simple. If you have to ask if they are interested, the answer is almost always no. A guy who really likes you will move heaven and earth to see you. If his phone runs out of minutes, he will BORROW a phone, he will use a damn pay phone, he will find a way to contact you

Yatzee, Bingo, Bullseye. If a guy really like you he will find a way to get in touch. Most guys are not afraid of making a fool or an azz of themselves if they really like to. We are simple as stated. Food, water, women.
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