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hooking up with him is okay as long as you're okay with your future boyfriend's side chick. Don't say this wouldn't ever happen to you. People get blindsided all the time.
What's his perspective???? It's actually very simple. He's either selfish, wants his cake and eat it too, or he's bored with his girlfriend and you're convenient vag who happens to also be his friend. Oh and if he's hitting on you and trying to hook up with you, don't think you'll be the only other girl he'll try to get with on the side. If he'd cheat on her with you, why wouldnt he cheat on her with other girls?
Yes...if a guy chooses to cheat on his girlfriend, then HE is the cheater and not the person he cheats with, but it still doesn't seem like a very moral thing to do to knowingly sleep with someone you know is cheating on their SO by being with you. What goes around comes around.
It does not seem like a particularly IMMORAL thing to do either. Again if I meet a person who I am sexually interested in - and they choose to be with me - then that is our choice together.
If this breaks some moral committments that person has with someone else then that has nothing to do with me.
It makes it a bit more complicated when the guy with the girlfriend is also my bestfriend.....
Why aren't you good enough to be his girlfriend, rather than the chick he sneaks around with? If he sees you as his best friend (not just the other way around) and is physically attracted to you, why wouldn't he be with you? Do you know how many men would jump at that?
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