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there is a guy and we are very close... he has a girlfriend, and i've met her plenty of times. no issues there. she seems to be okay with me and her boyfriend's friendship. lately, things have been changing with me and this guy... he has started getting very flirty and while i haven't flirted a lot back, i haven't done anything to shut him down. obviously, this is not a guy i would ever date. (he has a girlfriend, and flirts w/ me... not very committed or loyal) i've really been thinking lately about if he tried something, what would i do? at this point, i would hook up with him. i just would. i don't see anything wrong with this morally, which scares me. am i a horrible person?
Horrible person? No. If you see nothing wrong with it morally then there IS something wrong with your value system. You may need to get those checked, because that counts as cheating. I think "mistress" is pretty much as guilty as the cheater if she is also fully aware that this is not a single man.
Cheating or helping someone to cheat are always wrong. Do you want to ruin the relationship his girlfriend has with him? If you do, do it in a more civilized way and tell her directly that her bf has been flirting with you.
i have no intension of ruining their relationship. somehow i just feel like if it's not me, then it will be with another girl. if he is ready to physically cheat on her, after what i already feel like is emotional cheating, then they have no real relationship.
i have no intension of ruining their relationship. somehow i just feel like if it's not me, then it will be with another girl. if he is ready to physically cheat on her, after what i already feel like is emotional cheating, then they have no real relationship.
If that's how you feel then why do you want to get involved in it?
Are you so lowly and desperate that you have to have sex with a man who already has a girlfriend? Just stay out of it.
i have no intension of ruining their relationship. somehow i just feel like if it's not me, then it will be with another girl. if he is ready to physically cheat on her, after what i already feel like is emotional cheating, then they have no real relationship.
I think you should tell his girlfriend, so she can leave him. She deserves a better man.
there is a guy and we are very close... he has a girlfriend, and i've met her plenty of times. no issues there. she seems to be okay with me and her boyfriend's friendship. lately, things have been changing with me and this guy... he has started getting very flirty and while i haven't flirted a lot back, i haven't done anything to shut him down. obviously, this is not a guy i would ever date. (he has a girlfriend, and flirts w/ me... not very committed or loyal) i've really been thinking lately about if he tried something, what would i do? at this point, i would hook up with him. i just would. i don't see anything wrong with this morally, which scares me. am i a horrible person?
isn't it her choice to be in a relationship with a guy who doesn't place high value on commitment? if not me, then i feel like it will be another girl and i really like this guy as a friend, and am very physically attracted to him
why should i really care about his girlfriend? it's terrible, but i just don't feel like i "owe" her anything...
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Originally Posted by coloradostgirl
isn't it her choice to be in a relationship with a guy who doesn't place high value on commitment? if not me, then i feel like it will be another girl and i really like this guy as a friend, and am very physically attracted to him
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Originally Posted by 14Bricks
I totally disagree, its not her job or business to tell his girlfriend anything. That's a hater move.
uh huh sure~
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