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Originally Posted by TheHurricaneKid
I know I am desperate, but knowledge of desperation doesn't cure my craving for human contact. These days, I just wish I had someone to hug, hold hands, and look into their eyes. It's been months since I've last got a hug. Friends, work, hobbies, food, pornography cannot satisfy this empty hole in my heart.
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Dude, I feel your pain.
I stayed away from human contact, especially women for a few years just to heal myself, rehabilitate and get rid of some of lifes other problems. It was one of the best things I did in my life because it made me realize the value of
life itself.
I started caring a whole lot less about trying to impress women, engaging in relationships and sex altogether. I found things in my life that I had forgotten about that I wish I didn't forget. More importantly, I realized that the world of dating, relationships and all that stuff is not for all guys. It's nice to have a woman in my life but I have learned to minimalize the importance of them and not be contingent on needed one around. Soon as I discovered that, I got more attention from women and people in general.
I don't walk in your shoes or travel your path but I can say to you that there is better.
Do your best to find your inner strength and make sure you are mentally strong to socially interact with people, not just women but men too. Feel good about yourself first by taking care of your body and at least doing something to improve your outward appearance.
Your post would tell me that you may not look like a person that people don't want to surround themselves with. You need to find positive energy within yourself, maximize it and channel that towards improving your life. People will be curious about why you are feeling so good when it shows. Everybody wants some of that but not all people care to share the happiness.
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