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Honestly, what can be said that wasn't said 122 pages ago? I'm not sure what OP wants - sympathy perhaps? Since he is 1/2 of the problem and obviously refuses to change, it's hard to feel sympathetic.
OP, hasn't your counselor given you some coping techniques for dealing with your wife's selfish immaturity? Giving in to her tantrums is perpetuating the problem.
I can't believe you are back posting about the same problem as before. There's nothing that can be said this time around that wasn't said then. You were given good advice back then. After pages and pages, I summed up the situation in post #1205 in the thread below. Looks like it still applies. So sad.
Let me catch you guys up( unless you want to read 121 pages). If you don't wanna read I'll give you the summary. My wife and I began dating at 14, had a son at 18(he's now 18 almost 19), we got married at 19. I went to Notre Dame and worked. She was brought up pretty pampered and spoiled by her parents( I inadvertently kept it going I guess out of guilt for making her almost a single mother( even though all of my work $$ went to her). We've tried counseling, she doesn't go much, but i do. I know longer go to counseling with my son. I think her anger at me is " You ruined my 20s by making me a young mother. Thanks a lot." Whenever we have a problem, she cries(mostly fake) and runs into our room and locks the door and keeps it locked until a gift or dinner is brought up.
Buy her a chastity belt and tell her to keep her legs closed. That way she doesn't have anymore unwanted pregnancies.
Let me catch you guys up( unless you want to read 121 pages). If you don't wanna read I'll give you the summary. My wife and I began dating at 14, had a son at 18(he's now 18 almost 19), we got married at 19. I went to Notre Dame and worked. She was brought up pretty pampered and spoiled by her parents( I inadvertently kept it going I guess out of guilt for making her almost a single mother( even though all of my work $$ went to her). We've tried counseling, she doesn't go much, but i do. I know longer go to counseling with my son. I think her anger at me is " You ruined my 20s by making me a young mother. Thanks a lot." Whenever we have a problem, she cries(mostly fake) and runs into our room and locks the door and keeps it locked until a gift or dinner is brought up.
Is she not aware that she had something to do with her becoming a young mother? She was there. It takes two to tango. If she didn't want to be a young mother, she should have stopped you, or gotten bc, as many women in their first relationship do.
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