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Old 11-10-2013, 07:30 AM
 
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It appears she wants another chance, I am guessing she was wanting to further show she was ill. While gross, it might be worth a second chance.
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Old 11-10-2013, 09:56 AM
 
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I met her online, got her number pretty quickly. We planned to grab a couple drinks on Wednesday night. When I told her I was on my way she wrote back that she was still at work, forgot about our meeting and was having a terrible day. She seemed really stressed & apologetic.

The next day she texted me and told me she was sick. She said something along the lines of "good thing we didn't meet last night, I would of gotten you sick." I told her to feel better.

Today she sent me a picture of her nasty throat to "prove" that she's sick . Trust me, it's nasty. I'm confused, She's really attractive and normal looking in her pictures and her profile is put together well. Could she be messing with me? Am I overreacting? should I be creeped out?

I don't even know how to respond. She seemed really normal before that picture.
The real question is, Will you be able to get past the nasty pic and still give her a chance?
Some people won't be able to get past that and will mark the person down for oversharing like that. Others will. What will you do?
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Old 11-10-2013, 10:04 AM
 
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I met her online, got her number pretty quickly. We planned to grab a couple drinks on Wednesday night. When I told her I was on my way she wrote back that she was still at work, forgot about our meeting and was having a terrible day. She seemed really stressed & apologetic.

The next day she texted me and told me she was sick. She said something along the lines of "good thing we didn't meet last night, I would of gotten you sick." I told her to feel better.

Today she sent me a picture of her nasty throat to "prove" that she's sick . Trust me, it's nasty. I'm confused, She's really attractive and normal looking in her pictures and her profile is put together well. Could she be messing with me? Am I overreacting? should I be creeped out?

I don't even know how to respond. She seemed really normal before that picture.
Are you sure it was a pic of her throat?
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Old 11-10-2013, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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The real question is, Will you be able to get past the nasty pic and still give her a chance?
Some people won't be able to get past that and will mark the person down for oversharing like that. Others will. What will you do?
We've been texting, she seems fine, and I'm okay with it now.

I must admit I was startled in the beginning though.
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Old 11-10-2013, 11:14 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Grossed out, maybe and maybe a little taken aback because she felt the need to prove she was sick. But that's not really creepy in my book.
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Old 11-10-2013, 11:21 AM
 
Location: southwest TN
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Plus, she wrote 'would of' instead of 'would have'! She is indeed creepy.
But he didn't flinch at that, either.
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Old 11-10-2013, 09:45 PM
 
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I think it's gross but not creepy. She probably really likes you and thought she needed to prove she was sick so you wouldn't give up on her.
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Old 11-11-2013, 01:17 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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She is who she is. Accept it or move on.
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Old 11-11-2013, 02:04 AM
 
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I met her online, got her number pretty quickly. We planned to grab a couple drinks on Wednesday night. When I told her I was on my way she wrote back that she was still at work, forgot about our meeting and was having a terrible day. She seemed really stressed & apologetic.

The next day she texted me and told me she was sick. She said something along the lines of "good thing we didn't meet last night, I would of gotten you sick." I told her to feel better.

Today she sent me a picture of her nasty throat to "prove" that she's sick . Trust me, it's nasty. I'm confused, She's really attractive and normal looking in her pictures and her profile is put together well. Could she be messing with me? Am I overreacting? should I be creeped out?

I don't even know how to respond. She seemed really normal before that picture.
Sounds to me like she is sick. I would not be creeped out, I would give her a little time to recover and go from there.
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Old 11-11-2013, 09:38 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Meet her when she has recovered. What do you have to lose??

There is so many flakes and liars out there, she wanted to prove she isn't one of them. How else can you prove you have a sore throat if not with a nasty pic?

So even thought he pic was gross, she is honest, really wants to see you and I would give her credit for that.
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