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Old 11-10-2013, 05:22 AM
Location: In Sticky San Antonio TX
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Nothing more to add here - the OP should go to bed, assimilate findings from all posts, and bust a move AWAY from this vortex of misery. Manipulation is charming until it's done to you.
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Old 11-10-2013, 11:36 AM
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If someone else wrote that first post and you read it you would say....dude, she's only calling you because she's having problems with her current boyfriend. If she wasnt, you'd never hear from her. She's just keeping all her options open. Do you want to be an option? She's doing to him what she did to you...and if you go back with her, she'll do it to you again when she finds someone new.

Get it?
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Old 11-11-2013, 02:34 PM
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Get under someone to get over someone.

Seeing as you still have feelings, I wouldn't suggest you f......her and let her think you forgive her only to dump her when you find the right one.

I never fully commit to any woman. I always leave an "out" for when they mess up. They are usually shocked when they see how fast i've moved on.
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Old 11-11-2013, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Thehouse View Post
Get under someone to get over someone.
When I was 16 I met a girl who dumped her bf for me and used this exact line.. hearing those words I knew only awesomeness could follow lol

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Old 11-12-2013, 09:21 AM
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I wouldn't give her the time of day. Don't let her suck you back into anything. You deserve so much better.
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Old 11-12-2013, 10:57 AM
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Pick yourself up and don't fall victim to this woman again. She will most likely hurt you again if you allow her back into your life.

Each time you answer a text or phone call, you are throwing her a lifeline to come back into your life and ruin it again.

Don't do it.
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Old 11-13-2013, 04:52 AM
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Originally Posted by djo87 View Post
We broke up almost 2 years ago after being together on and off for about 4 years. to sum it up, she left me for someone else without even having the courtesy of breaking up face to face, or even by phone, by nothing actually. It was really cold and inconsiderate. Yea I was really heartbroken but life goes on and got over most of it eventually. To be honest I'm still a little heart broken and angry.

Anyway, I had recently moved to a new state and job about a year ago. The past year though she has been texting and calling me every now and then telling me she still misses me and still has feeling for me and she doesn't know why. Turns out things have not been the best between her and this guy for the past year. I'm ignoring most of her calls and texts but I admit I give in once in a while and answer back. I'm keeping a cool head though, telling her how messed up it was what she had done and that I'm still a little angry, but I don't hate her and wish her the best. We both know we were such a huge part of each other's lives and she still thinks about us time to time. But I keep telling her even though I do miss what we had, it would never work out and that I wouldn't be able to ever trust her again and I wouldn't want to end up together with her if the chance came up down the road. But she still calls and tries to contact me! She even wants to fly out to where I am and see me.

I meant everything I told her, but I still get jealous when I think of her with someone else. Yea I do miss her but like I said, things ended up in a ugly way and I do not want to get back together with her, then why do I still get angry and sad thinking about her? Why does a part of me secretly hope it's her calling or texting me every time I hear my phone ring? It's stupid I feel like this and I don't know why. Just reaching out for some advice. thanks.
Sounds like you're in a bad relationship with a cold hearted witch. Some people like that though. To each his own. Personally, I would have just told her to F off. Then, I would change my number and block her emails or send to spam. Your self worth should be more than any "feelings" you have for her.
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