She's upset because I don't want to be present during birth (girlfriend, women)

[JasonWinkle]

My "girlfriend" is pregnant and she can go into labour at anytime now. The pregnancy was never meant to happen.

She was just a nice hot girl I met once during a work trip, found out she was on a work trip as well and we were from the same city. I started banging her but I though she was aware it was nothing more than a casual fling. Apparently she was naive enough to think we were "in love". I kept sleeping with other women throughout the whole time obviously.

Long story short, I got careless once or twice and by the time I wanted to break up with her, she was pregnant. She thought I would over the moon with the news but I tried to convince her to get an abortion because we barely knew each other. She was horrified by the idea, said no way and went ahead with the pregnancy.

I'll obviously have to take a paternity test after the baby boy is born, I'm quite sure it's mine but still...anyway, that's another story.

I decided not to break up with her while she was pregnant and she thinks we are a couple. Now she's mad at me because I don't want to be with her during the birth. I told her I'm not comfortable with the setting, that she can perfectly have her mother with her but she even cried yesterday, saying I was insensitive.

It just doesn't make sense for me to be there when I know we are not together and I will ter her I've been seeing other women after the baby is born.

[reebo]

Excellent first post!

[BirdieBelle]

So what's the problem?

[stan4]

There is a thread in the Philosophy section inspired by posts like these.

Has anyone ever lost their faith in humanity?

[JasonWinkle]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

So what's the problem?

She's making a huge deal out of it and I'm afraid she finds out the truth on her own. She certainly doesn't need that when she's about to give birth.

It was already enough trouble to convince her we had no need to live together "for now".

[Kees]

Originally Posted by JasonWinkle

I kept sleeping with other women throughout the whole time obviously.

It just doesn't make sense for me to be there when I know we are not together and I will ter her I've been seeing other women after the baby is born.

Cool story.

I hear child support can get expensive the more you score...

[Rance]

You should just snip your nuts. You obviously are not man enough or mature enough to use them for their intended purpose.

[JasonWinkle]

Originally Posted by Kees

Cool story.

I hear child support can get expensive the more you score...

I'm planning for a vasectomy already.

[Magnatomicflux]

Originally Posted by JasonWinkle

It just doesn't make sense for me to be there when I know we are not together and I will ter her I've been seeing other women after the baby is born.

I'm sure they'll be better off without you.


OH! Be sure to post back and tell us how much they garnish off your cheque every month in child support.

[JasonWinkle]

Originally Posted by Rance

You obviously are not man enough or mature enough to use them for their intended purpose.

Huhh? You speak as if I kicked her down the stairs.

Originally Posted by Magnatomicflux

I'm sure they'll be better off without you.


OH! Be sure to post back and tell us how much they garnish off your cheque every month in child support.

If he's truly my son, he surely won't be better off without me.

Don't worry, fortunately money isn't a problem to me.