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Old 11-10-2013, 10:14 PM
 
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I can't believe anyone could possibly think he's a stand up person. He knows that she thinks they are exclusive but he's sleeping with other people. I'm not sure what more needs to be said.

And I'm still not buying that this is a real story. Who in their right mind would admit to being a liar and not see anything wrong with it.

The black GW BUSH LOL

Yea I think this story might be fake it seems that way. All I know is if i were to knock up my FWB I would be there during the birth . On top of that i would fight to have the kid full time seeing that she did not want kids I might win in that case. I am sure my mom and dad would not be happy about it. That is the first thing they ask me when that FWB ended when i said she need to think about some things they thought I got her pregnant. I was like heck NO i am smarter then that . That is what i get letting people know who i am sleeping with.
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Old 11-10-2013, 10:15 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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I can't believe anyone could possibly think he's a stand up person. He knows that she thinks they are exclusive but he's sleeping with other people. I'm not sure what more needs to be said.

And I'm still not buying that this is a real story. Who in their right mind would admit to being a liar and not see anything wrong with it.
I never said he was a stand up guy......I said he is better than a lot of other men who would have disappeared and run away from paying child support.

And....as far as she is concerned.....once a guy suggests an abortion.....you better be prepared to be a single mother if you go ahead with the pregnancy against his wishes. You can't expect him to marry you or stay with you. That went out a long time ago.....right along with shotgun weddings.

As far as him admitting he is a liar......he is only admitting it on an anonymous message board.....and.... I do think he knows what he did is wrong but didn't have enough guts to tell her the truth after she told him she was pregnant. Until she told him that.....he was planning on breaking up with her. If he was planning on breaking up with her, what difference did it make what he was doing?

As soon as she told him of the pregnancy.....he should have come clean with her right then and there. At that moment it became his obligation to tell her how he felt, that he was planning on breaking up with her and that he was seeing other women.
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Old 11-11-2013, 01:15 AM
 
Location: NYC
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I don't get it. From the sounds of it, the OP is good with money, has money and can juggle multiple women while getting one pregnant. And yet the question of whether to be in the hospital is tripping you up? There are definitely men like this, self entitled men who are extremely charming and good with women. And I can't imagine any of them coming to a forum asking a silly question like this.
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Old 11-11-2013, 05:47 AM
 
Location: Hampstead NC
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Am I the only one who thinks this may be the same guy from this thread?

GF wants to break agreement about getting abortion

Naw....he's talking about abortion which would be early in the pregnancy and JasonWinkle's child is due any second now...probably not.
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Old 11-11-2013, 07:59 AM
 
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I wouldn't want to be there at childbirth

I prefer the old days when the father walked into the maternity ward , kissed his wife and met his new son or daughter
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Old 11-11-2013, 08:04 AM
 
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Huhh? You speak as if I kicked her down the stairs.



If he's truly my son, he surely won't be better off without me.

Don't worry, fortunately money isn't a problem to me.
No, other things are a problem to you. Such as humanity. A soul. Et cetera.


As I posted on another thread, I'm rooting for this little mommy to find a great guy who will love her and her child and the child will call him "daddy".
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Old 11-11-2013, 08:11 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I wouldn't go in the delivery room during birth.

She needs to understand that. Also, you need to come clean and tell her your plans about not being with her, but being a father. Don't keep leading her on.
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Old 11-11-2013, 01:19 PM
 
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OP - Child birth is disgusting and I don't blame you. Although, if you're going to be a player and don't want kids - get a vasectomy!
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