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Old 11-10-2013, 07:31 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA and Washington, DC
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Am I the only one who thinks this may be the same guy from this thread?

GF wants to break agreement about getting abortion
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Old 11-10-2013, 07:36 AM
 
Location: california
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If your not willing to take responsibility don't have sex .
In this case man up ,be a responsible human, instead of gutter trash that make messes and moves on making more messes.
Her life is forever altered because of you.
Put your self in her present position.
I dare you.
Wanting her to get an abortion to cover up your immaturity is going to fix any thing you will never learn to man up,unless you choose to.
You cultured the running around not being responsible .
You could have cultured the opposite, and this never would have happened.
How long is that going to last ?
You had to know that some day this could happen, it's not magic, it's chemistry that almost never fails.
"Knocked Up" pretty good movie.
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Old 11-10-2013, 07:37 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Am I the only one who thinks this may be the same guy from this thread?

GF wants to break agreement about getting abortion
I just assume they're all trolls.
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Old 11-10-2013, 09:06 AM
 
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I like the 3rd bass version the best.


3rd Bass - Cats In The Cradle - YouTube
the original harry chapin one is the best!!

always been one of my favs..

a brilliant song-- depicting how a father treats his child, will be the way the child treats him later in life
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Old 11-10-2013, 09:15 AM
 
Location: Hampstead NC
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Jason, you didn't make it clear: assuming this child IS yours, do you plan to actively participate in your child's life? I mean as a parent, not just as a provider of child support checks.

If you DO plan to parent this child, you should absolutely be there for the birth. No excuses. I know it is gross, but you liked her vagina well enough when the baby was going in, so I'm sure you can handle seeing it come out. And regardless of the relationship with the babymama, you will be co-parenting with her for a long time, so you need to demonstrate your respect for her RIGHT NOW. She is doing a very important thing and is deserving of your support, empathy and humanity.

If you do NOT plan to parent this child, even if it is yours, you need to tell her right now and consult a lawyer about what will be involved in renouncing your rights as a parent and setting up a process by which you will pay support without having to be in contact with her. If you try to be a 'little' involved in their lives, you will set her up for a lifetime of disappointment because they will always be hoping for more.

If you saw a woman in labor in a public place and you were the only person around, would you stop to help? or walk on by?
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Old 11-10-2013, 10:23 AM
 
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It is obviously a fake post from a kid who has never even been near a pregnant couple.

I know this because his central dilemma is that he says he doesn't want to be in the delivery room with her. Forgetting of course that someone who is actually in this position would be in the delivery room to see his own child being born.

Aren't there enough videogames out there to keep the kids off C-D?
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Old 11-10-2013, 10:30 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I'm planning for a vasectomy already.
I think you should cut your junk off at the root with a Ka-Bar. Would it kill you to be there to hold her hand while she has your kid, you self-centered p****?
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Old 11-10-2013, 10:38 AM
 
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I think you should cut your junk off at the root with a Ka-Bar. Would it kill you to be there to hold her hand while she has your kid, you self-centered p****?
1) I still don't know if the boy is mine.

2) The father being present in the delivery room is a modern nonsense. It never used to be that way and women didn't die because of it.
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Old 11-10-2013, 10:41 AM
 
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Jason, you didn't make it clear: assuming this child IS yours, do you plan to actively participate in your child's life? I mean as a parent, not just as a provider of child support checks.
Of course. The little boy is completely innocent in this.

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If you DO plan to parent this child, you should absolutely be there for the birth. No excuses. I know it is gross, but you liked her vagina well enough when the baby was going in, so I'm sure you can handle seeing it come out. And regardless of the relationship with the babymama, you will be co-parenting with her for a long time, so you need to demonstrate your respect for her RIGHT NOW. She is doing a very important thing and is deserving of your support, empathy and humanity.
But she can have her mother there to give her support. I would pass the whole delivery room thing. I already hate hospitals, let alone that particular setting.
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Old 11-10-2013, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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It's not something you want to miss.
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