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I've read several threads over the yrs here where a woman was questioning whether a guy likes her or not because he's not being aggressive or trying to "get laid" fast enough.
I personally have done that in my life, try and go slow and take things slow and the woman gets bored and moves on.
I sometimes feel like you mention, damned if you do and damned if you don't.
taking things too slow has been a failure for me more often than not in the past
I don't believe this twee crap ( in most cases ) about how women want to be treated like charechters ina jane Austin novel
For a normal person, yes, but for an artist, NO! ha ha.
Nothing wrong with it. I went on like 10 dates before I held my future wife's hand. More than that before we kissed. Happily married for many years now.
If hand holding seems like it might scare him, go for touching his arm while talking. I've NEVER met a man who didn't seem to like that. It helps melt that invisible barrier and gives you an idea how receptive he is to hand holding.
*hes shy
*hes inexperienced with intimacy
*hes not that into you
So do you think he is not into me eventhough he texts me everyday and making plans to see me? I didnt pay attention but hes been texting me everday just different times of the day.
So do you think he is not into me eventhough he texts me everyday and making plans to see me? I didnt pay attention but hes been texting me everday just different times of the day.
He's interested in you, otherwise he wouldn't keep contact up with you.
If hand holding seems like it might scare him, go for touching his arm while talking. I've NEVER met a man who didn't seem to like that. It helps melt that invisible barrier and gives you an idea how receptive he is to hand holding.
If hand holding scares someone, are they really relationship material?
It doesn't scare me, but would bother me if I was nervous and my palms were sweaty. That would make me not initiate it for sure.
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