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Old 11-14-2013, 01:10 PM
 
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No I dont want to make a move. I prefer if he initiates. Hes been initiating on contacting me and asking me out so I dont see why he cant initiate holding my hand.
I dunno. I think holding hands is more unique/special than kissing. Kiss first then hold hands later. At least thats the order of operations when I was dating last year in my mid 20s.
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Old 11-14-2013, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Lexington, SC
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I view this as he has a lot of respect for you and in no way wants to be pushy, seems to me he wants to build a relationship rather than push for it. If you have an interest in more, just let him know. A few subtle touches can go a long way in bringing out a mans desires for more
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Old 11-14-2013, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Ubique
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Some of you are watching way too much porn. Guy is being a gentleman, and it doesn't sound like OP can't wait to jump his bones. She just wants to know if his behavior is abnormal.

It is very normal for someone who doesn't want to appear as rushing things, and blowing the whole thing. He values, or he hopes that, OP has potential for being a meaningful relationship.

This guy knows what he's doing, and believe it or not, it is refreshing that sometimes we meet a woman who is worth more than a ONS. Yes, this is a compliment to OP.
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Old 11-15-2013, 07:51 AM
 
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I don't think you understand something about guys. They don't care about holding hands.

It's a girl thing to like to hold hands while walking or whatever.

If he makes a move, it's not going to be holding your hand. It's either going to be a move towards your lips with his lips or an arm around your shoulder.


Is it really too hard for you to just like maybe smile more when your with him, and stare at his eyes a little more? Or even just touch his shoulder, or playfully punch his shoulder. Like c'mon gal.

I quite like holding hands but I prefer an arm in arm lock
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Old 11-15-2013, 07:56 AM
 
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My second date with Duchamp Girl was very critical because it changed my life. Had I not kissed her, I'd still have been single and missed out forever. I kissed her suddenly when saying goodbye, it naturally happened. She was also so hot that I got a massive erection after 6 seconds. It was so embarrassing that I said goodbye and left. She later told me I may have got an erection because she moved in closer and rubbed her knee over Mr. Frisk on purpose
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Old 11-15-2013, 02:33 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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He shows signs of interests but is it normal that after two dates, he hasn't attempted to hold my hand or kiss me. Is that good or bad?
It's possible that if there is any physical intimacy, even holding hands, he may feel that he may get ahead of himself. He may want to go really slow. Is that so bad or would you prefer a guy who thinks he can bang you after two dates?
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Old 11-16-2013, 07:41 PM
 
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It's possible that if there is any physical intimacy, even holding hands, he may feel that he may get ahead of himself. He may want to go really slow. Is that so bad or would you prefer a guy who thinks he can bang you after two dates?
No. I like that were taking it slow.
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Old 11-16-2013, 07:49 PM
 
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He sounds shy. You may have to take the reigns on this one and just lay a wet one on him.
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Old 11-16-2013, 08:24 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I quite like holding hands but I prefer an arm in arm lock
I find headlocks to be the most romantic.
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Old 11-16-2013, 08:28 PM
 
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I find headlocks to be the most romantic.
I'll never forget my first noogie... Sigh.
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