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Old 11-12-2013, 02:13 AM
 
Location: Colorado
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If you give her a Happy Meal, she will thank you and come again.
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Old 11-12-2013, 02:51 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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I use to be able to bring my ex Girlfriend to multiple sarcasms.
Men don't cause orgasms. However, a man can create an environment of trust, security and intimacy in the relationship and in the bed in which it is easier for a woman (or some women) to reach orgasm and if not that, then at least make it more enjoyable.

Granted, some women are self-starters and/or loners and what they often need is an environment full of sexual energy and, for them, trust, security and intimacy may be somewhat fearful, whether they have orgasms or not.
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Old 11-12-2013, 03:00 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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The "problem" with ONS is that there is no opportunity nor motivation to work on making the sex better. It's like expecting high quality service, atmosphere, and food in a fast food restaurant. McDonald's serves BILLIONS. A few disappointed customers? Meh...

[you get what you pay, or lay, for]
I think this is partly correct. However, one motivation for a ONS on the part of a woman is to avoid any emotional connection to sex. It's pretty easy to tell.

Where I live the ONS is a fairly well established and accepted method (but certainly not the only way) of starting a relationship, but still there is often a tendency for the woman to hold back a little, just in case it doesn't work out as she wanted.
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Old 11-12-2013, 03:03 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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If you give her a Happy Meal, she will thank you and come again.
I agree with the happy meal concept. But it has to be a gourmet meal in a 5 star restaurant, not MacDonalds style.
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Old 11-12-2013, 03:04 AM
 
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That doesn't surprise me one bit. Hookup culture is all about men and what men want.
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Old 11-12-2013, 03:07 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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All you need is a dolphin.
But a Dolphin can't tell you how lovely you are. However, I am sure talking dolphins are on the way, and smart phones already have a vibrator mode and all you need is an earpiece and a sweet guy on the other end of the line.
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Old 11-12-2013, 11:10 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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In other breaking news scientists discover the Earth is a globe.
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Old 11-12-2013, 11:23 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Men don't cause orgasms.


They do if they know what they're doing.
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Old 11-12-2013, 11:23 AM
 
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Well, the common saying among women is that the more a man talks or brags about sex, the worse he is at it.
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In that case, I should be a God.
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Old 11-12-2013, 12:14 PM
 
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Well, the common saying among women is that the more a man talks or brags about sex, the worse he is at it. So, no.

The best trick is to demonstrate in non-sexual ways the traits that make an excellent lover. Show that you pay attention to her and learn from what you see and hear. Show that you care about her actual feelings and wishes, not the things you think she should feel or want. Show consideration and thoughtfulness and generosity (emotional, non financial). Basically just be the opposite of selfish.
Heck I do that already.
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