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View Poll Results: How do you feel about chivalry
I'm a woman and I like it 11 29.73%
I'm a woman and its appreciated/I don't mind it 6 16.22%
I'm a woman and I am offended by it 0 0%
I'm a man and I like expressing myself in this manner 12 32.43%
I'm a man and do not do these things myself but do not think negatively of it or those who do 6 16.22%
I'm a man and she can pay 2 5.41%
Voters: 37. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-19-2013, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Indiana
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Another tread got me thinking about this so I decided to make a poll. It should be pretty self explanatory. Pick which one fits you best.

 
Old 11-19-2013, 08:06 AM
 
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I dont see the poll
 
Old 11-19-2013, 08:06 AM
 
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Originally Posted by InternetTroll View Post
Another tread got me thinking about this so I decided to make a poll. It should be pretty self explanatory. Pick which one fits you best.
Where is it?
 
Old 11-19-2013, 08:07 AM
 
Location: Indiana
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Fixed it, my bad.
 
Old 11-19-2013, 08:09 AM
 
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I'm a man and my penis is more chivalrous than me. It always opens the door.
 
Old 11-19-2013, 08:10 AM
 
Location: NY
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I am a man, and I like to show my wife through my actions that I love and appreciate her.
 
Old 11-19-2013, 08:11 AM
 
Location: Indiana
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I'm a man and my penis is more chivalrous than me. It always opens the door.
What a champ. Really though just wondering if people on here still do the chivalry stuff. I do it myself and I know a lot of people do. Really shows you care IMO.
 
Old 11-19-2013, 08:21 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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I'm a woman and I like it.
 
Old 11-19-2013, 08:22 AM
 
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I picked I am a woman and I like it, because it's true. I also tend to be a bit more traditional when it comes to gender roles.

The only thing that confuses me is the last one. "she can pay" Since when is chivalry about paying for something? Maybe I am mistaken, but I never wrapped that up in things like holding the car door for me, helping me carry my bags, walking me to the door, etc. I kind of agree with the "Ask Men" article that gives primes examples of modern day chivalry as:

Bear the weather (AKA offering her your jacket if she's cold)
Walk on the outside of the sidewalk
Picking her up for the date
Make sure she gets home safely
Get out of your car
Hold the door
Introduce her to people

That said, the man I am seeing is very chivalrous. It actually helped to win me over so to speak (made him stand out and made me feel important to him). He also always pays for dates. I've tried to pay, but he was deeply offended the one time I got our dinner bill and seemed very agitated the one time I treated him to the movies. I've never tried to get the bill since. I find other ways to pay him back--like cooking him dinner instead of taking him out to dinner, etc. So maybe paying for the date is a type of chivalry. I just never thought of it that way.
 
Old 11-19-2013, 08:30 AM
 
Location: Buenos Aires
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I´m a woman and i like it.
But, I think a man should be whatever he wants to be. If he wants to be that way, fine, if he finds no passion in being that way, then he shouldn't fake it.
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