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Your heart is not broken. You are simply disappointed and confused. If a man is interested he will make an effort to see you even if you are shy. However, men usually prefer women who can carry on a conversation. American men usually like women who are self confident. That doesn't mean you need to be forward, just smile, sit up straight, and make occasional eye contact when you are talking.
Do you have any friends in real life? Ask them what you should do.
Not a bad idea to let him know you had a nice time. Don't say too much.
I had text him“Thank you so much for your arrangement. I enjoyed it!” But he didnt answer me.
Your heart is not broken. You are simply disappointed and confused. If a man is interested he will make an effort to see you even if you are shy. However, men usually prefer women who can carry on a conversation. American men usually like women who are self confident. That doesn't mean you need to be forward, just smile, sit up straight, and make occasional eye contact when you are talking.
Do you have any friends in real life? Ask them what you should do.
Not a bad idea to let him know you had a nice time. Don't say too much.
I asked one of my American friend, he said I needed to wait...
Thank you so much!
I texted him in the morning and told him 'I think I miss you already!". He replied so fast and showed his 100percent interest in me.
I don't know why he didn't let me know the day after first date.
Women don't want what rules, they just want to know men's feeling.
But---he just said he has sex attractive to me. I don't know whether I should answer him the same way.
You need to follow your best instincts and do what you believe is the right thing to do. If you're not ready to have sex, tell him that you are attracted to him but would like to get to know him better. If he's the right guy for you, he will respect your wishes. If he's only looking for sex, he will leave.
If you end up dating on a regular basis, you will learn what kind of man he is. If he's the wrong sort, you will find a much better one later. Don't doubt yourself. You deserve a good partner.
You need to follow your best instincts and do what you believe is the right thing to do. If you're not ready to have sex, tell him that you are attracted to him but would like to get to know him better. If he's the right guy for you, he will respect your wishes. If he's only looking for sex, he will leave.
If you end up dating on a regular basis, you will learn what kind of man he is. If he's the wrong sort, you will find a much better one later. Don't doubt yourself. You deserve a good partner.
Yes, I told him I wanna to know him better. And we will hava a second date. Thank you so much for all you did!! I appreciated all !
Sadly a lot of women feel this way. The guy has to do everything apparently.
I don't see why women think they don't have to put themselves out there, but men always have to. I find that unfair but I'm not 'traditional.'
That's not true at all...the guy doesn't have to do everything...you call showing enough interest in someone to call them back, or ask them out "doing everything"?
What's unfair is that OP doesn't know one way or the other whether he has any interest in getting to know her as a person or as someone he just wants to have sex with.
I texted him in the morning and told him 'I think I miss you already!". He replied so fast and showed his 100percent interest in me.
I don't know why he didn't let me know the day after first date.
Women don't want what rules, they just want to know men's feeling.
But---he just said he has sex attractive to me. I don't know whether I should answer him the same way.
Yeh, 100% interest all right...especially after he told you he's attracted to the idea of [just] having sex with you...he probably can't wait to go out with you again ,especially after he's told you this, and you've accepted it, and still want a date.
I don't know whether I should answer him the same way.
It's easy...ask yourself: "Do I want to have sex with a man and expect nothing more?"..if the answer is yes, you say OK...if the answer is no, you keep on insisting that you get to know him more first.
He might want to still see you...and he might not....but it's your life, not his.
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