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Old 11-25-2013, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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But that law is so dead on. I was amazed when i applied it to women i have seen in my life. He was a genius.
You are just proving my point. This is probably exactly how the new members of the Westboro Baptist cult feel. "It's amazing! When I apply all these things to my own beliefs - they totally line up! Therefore, it must be right!"
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Old 11-25-2013, 10:16 AM
 
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I never really understood this argument either.

It's basically implying that not being in a monagamous relationship is anti female by nature
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Old 11-25-2013, 10:21 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I never really understood this argument either.

It's basically implying that not being in a monagamous relationship is anti female by nature
I don't think that wanting to be a bachelor forever in it of itself is sexist. I think the OP is being called sexist (among other things) for his beliefs - not for wanting to be a bachelor.
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Old 11-25-2013, 10:59 AM
 
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You are just proving my point. This is probably exactly how the new members of the Westboro Baptist cult feel. "It's amazing! When I apply all these things to my own beliefs - they totally line up! Therefore, it must be right!"
I want to stick with this mindset.Because if i choose another path then when i would be in my 50's ( if i live that long) i would look up my life and wonder how my life would have turned out if i sticked with my beleives when i was young. How would my life would have been if i didn't let myself go. I would not have been used up for my sperm and later treated like i didn't matter anymore. How i would have lots of money for myself instead of paying child support and alimony and how would i never got the same love back.In other words. I would have probably saved myself from heartaches, pain and being last in my wife's priority list.List is endless. I don't want to have any regrets. Its all good when there is no one in you life to hurt you because those who you love the most are one's who hurt you the most.
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:00 AM
 
Location: NY
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A life or lifestyle choice of being a bachelor or single would not be sexist.

Trying to justify making a lifestyle choice of being a single/bachelor through constant attacks against the female gender is sexist. In fact, doing so is pretty much the definition of what "sexist" is.

In this context, it seems clear to me why people may accuse the OP of being sexist. He has shown a need to defend his preferred lifestyle choice through a relentless, villifying attack on women in general.
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:23 AM
 
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A life or lifestyle choice of being a bachelor or single would not be sexist.

Trying to justify making a lifestyle choice of being a single/bachelor through constant attacks against the female gender is sexist. In fact, doing so is pretty much the definition of what "sexist" is.

In this context, it seems clear to me why people may accuse the OP of being sexist. He has shown a need to defend his preferred lifestyle choice through a relentless, villifying attack on women in general.
You do know i have provided surveys and links for every claim i have made so far, right ? So how i am sexist ?
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:51 AM
 
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Because these surveys tells about the general population and people who are in love. Breakups hit men harder. Why is it so ?Divorced men are 8 times more likely to commit suicide. Why is it so ?Men in general are more romantic than women. Why is it so ?Men are 30% more likely to die after their wives death but women remain unaffected. Why is it so ?Women are happier than men after divorce. Why is it so ?And all these things are concluded via studies and surveys and not made up by me. Seriously. The things are quite obvious.
LOL.
OK. Because men are more dependent on women for their emotional and physical needs. They basically have an indentured servant who most often also brings in an income. Thus, it is more difficult for them to carry on once they have lost that nurturing and support.

Whereas women will sometimes see the loss of a spouse as being freed from servitude. An opportunity to live their own lives without having to put another's needs and wants, ideas, thoughts, concerns, opportunities, wishes, etc. etc. before her own. Many women never had nurturing, support, step and fetch it from their SO so they don't miss it and life is actually easier not having a man around.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:32 PM
 
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LOL.
OK. Because men are more dependent on women for their emotional and physical needs. They basically have an indentured servant who most often also brings in an income. Thus, it is more difficult for them to carry on once they have lost that nurturing and support.

Whereas women will sometimes see the loss of a spouse as being freed from servitude. An opportunity to live their own lives without having to put another's needs and wants, ideas, thoughts, concerns, opportunities, wishes, etc. etc. before her own. Many women never had nurturing, support, step and fetch it from their SO so they don't miss it and life is actually easier not having a man around.
And new opportunity for money to come through via life insurance. LolThat's what they marry their men for. In most relationship. Men are givers. Women are takers. You can see it in dating itself. Men pay for dates., buy gifts, wedding rings etc.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:39 PM
 
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For someone who has zero experiencing with women, you sure do like to rant about them, don't you? Your mother must be very proud of you.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:43 PM
 
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And new opportunity for money to come through via life insurance. LolThat's what they marry their men for. In most relationship. Men are givers. Women are takers. You can see it in dating itself. Men pay for dates., buy gifts, wedding rings etc.
Yeah, your right. All men carry tons of life insurance and women marry them in hope that they will die young so they can sit back and live off the million dollar pay out. Heck they don't usually even have a proper burial for the chumps. My girlfriends are always talking about how they wish their old man would hurry and die so they can collect. I have been holding out for an older man who will make me the beneficiary of, at the minimum, a one million dollar policy. Menz are so silly.
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