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Old 11-28-2013, 02:58 AM
 
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Wow. We have hit a new level of creepiness here.

The OP feels wronged by what a woman did to him 15 or so years ago.

This eats away at him until he contacts a former employer to get her address.

He buys her a swastika and sends it to her anonymously.

This is stalking, no question about it. OP, use some of your cash for therapy before you hurt anybody.

its not stalking , I can assure you , technically speaking their would need to be many incidences of communication of an uninvited nature
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Old 11-28-2013, 03:02 AM
 
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No it is not. You can't wait to meet this bully years later to put him/her in their place. Do you have a wall of pictures of this person with circles around their face or darts in their head?

who said I cant wait to meet them , I could meet them tomorrow if I wanted , that ive waited fifteen years shows how controlled I am


its indicative of todays social attitudes that all the condemnation and derision is directed towards the victims of bullies , the bullies themselves are written of as at best , teachers of hard lessons and at worst , straight talkers

that's the impression from reading this site at least
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Old 11-28-2013, 06:17 AM
 
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thanks , thanks for that


your come across as an utter charmer in case your wondering what I think of you too
Hey, I'm not the one hellbent on revenge with something that happened a a lifetime ago. Nor am I the one sucker punching dudes in a back alley. And I'm certainly not the one acting like a creepy weirdo on a forum.
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Old 11-28-2013, 06:48 AM
 
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ive never had any intention of laying a finger on that woman from my past although some people here have decided otherwise

I said before nothing I could do would even things out , I sent her a nice present last xmas however , a swastika armband , bought it on ebay for small money , perfect present for a Nazi

this person had a profound effect on me at a young age and I had just escaped an abusive father ( who is desceased btw ) so I had to earn all my own confidence and self esteem growing up , was never given any for free , this person psychologically abused me non stop for four months every day , I thought I was up to the fight and thought I was giving as good as a I was getting but I had a delayed reaction and didn't suffer a breakdown until a month after I had left this place of work , doctors explained to me afterwards what happened , I nearly died because of this woman , she was pure evil

its not for fun that I remember her , she casts a long shadow
Seek mental help. You have mental issues where you seem like you may harm others eventually. No wonder you're depressed.

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Old 11-28-2013, 06:54 AM
 
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Seek mental help. You have mental issues whwre you swem like you may harm others eventually. No wondwr you're dwpressed.

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You might want to check your spellcheck on your Samsung.
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Old 11-28-2013, 07:43 AM
 
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Hey, I'm not the one hellbent on revenge with something that happened a a lifetime ago. Nor am I the one sucker punching dudes in a back alley. And I'm certainly not the one acting like a creepy weirdo on a forum.
Now.you're apologising for the guy who damaged my shoulder blade
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Old 11-28-2013, 07:46 AM
 
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You might want to check your spellcheck on your Samsung.
Lol good call. Fixed.

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Old 11-28-2013, 09:22 AM
 
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So this woman from 15 years ago who you knew for 4 months received a swastika armband and a 10 page letter of complaints and veiled threats from you?

You are one scary dude.

But I for one would LOVE to see that letter!
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Old 11-28-2013, 09:25 AM
 
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But I for one would LOVE to see that letter!
I'm sure the cops will as well at some stage.
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Old 11-28-2013, 09:27 AM
 
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And the one that it's eating alive is you. We can't control what others do but we can control how we react, and you've been carrying this with you for 15 years. How many more years are you going to torture yourself over something in your past? It is you that has chosen to let those four months define you.

People suffer unspeakable horrors every day. Look at the girls who were kidnapped in Cleveland by that nutbar Castro. They are picking up the pieces of their lives and moving forward after being abused and tortured and held captive for 10 or more years. If they can move forward, so can you.
I notice you conveniently didn't address my earlier post. You can't answer, and THAT is worth thinking about.
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