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Old 10-12-2014, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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No because once I'm not into the person emotionally, I lose interest sexually.
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Old 10-12-2014, 02:00 PM
 
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Yes I have. It was a huge mistake. Live and learn. lol
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Old 10-12-2014, 06:26 PM
 
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Not me personally. But I have known a few people who have. They whine and complain, but still stick around, so they really have no right to.

When people disrespect or **** me off, I don't even want to talk to them, let alone have sex. Was friends with a girl a few years, she started in with crap, and I cut her off without a thought. He's tried contacting me, and I haven't responded. Do I feel bad? No.
She's a he? Lol!

To the year old OP... Yes. However I feel it could be said that if I wasn't good in the sack I would have been kicked to the curb too. Soooo.... Hee Hee!
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Old 10-12-2014, 06:39 PM
 
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Oh, hellz yes.
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Old 10-12-2014, 07:30 PM
 
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Saving Abel - The Sex is Good - YouTube
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Old 10-12-2014, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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No, but I stayed longer because her cooking was great.
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Old 10-12-2014, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Pa
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No I didn't. No love no stay.
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Old 10-13-2014, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Space Coast, FL
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A resounding yes to your question, but after looking back, what I discovered was that I was addicted to the person, the sex and the intensity. When we were together it was such a high! The relationship consisted of completely uninhibited, over the top sex. And in the beginning, we both shared way too much, got way too personal too quickly.The relationship didn’t have a chance to grow or develop on a “normal” timetable.

As time went on, I found myself day dreaming about him, fantasizing about the next time we were going to be together and wanting more of him, his time and attention. He was like a drug and I was addicted! The question was did I stay in a relationship because the sex was so good? Yes! He was an incredible lover and no one had ever made me feel that good, but more than that we had a lot in common and were at similar places in life.

I often wonder how that relationship would have played out had the circumstances or the way things progressed been different, but I’ll never know. And at the end, I was so consumed with him that I behaved like an idiot. So his last memories of me are I’m sure not good ones.

The one positive thing, however, that came out of that relationship was thek nowledge or understanding of what it is to be addicted to a person, how to address it so that it doesn’t happen again in the future and gained a better understanding of myself.

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Old 10-13-2014, 11:53 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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Not me sex is not in the first in my list.
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Old 10-13-2014, 11:56 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I believe this happens a lot. Great sex is a powerful thing

You'd be surprised at the things people will let slide
yes, I let it slide in longer even though the relationship was over
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