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Old 11-27-2013, 12:03 PM
 
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There seem to be a lot of guys here who don't actually know any women IRL, and get all their info about women from stereotypes.

As part of my ongoing effort to help these guys get dates, and inspired by the latest posts in the 'Women Still Need Husbands' thread, I thought it might be good for us to spell some things out .

So, what do guys here need to know about real women? Men who have experience, you can post, too!

I'll start...

Most real women have careers.

Most real women love sex.

Most real women love men. Even lesbians .
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Old 11-27-2013, 12:05 PM
 
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Many real single women do want to be approached and chatted up in the grocery store, coffee shop, music concert, ticket line, etc.
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Old 11-27-2013, 12:06 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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So, um, women are just like real people?
What's the point of this thread?
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Old 11-27-2013, 12:07 PM
 
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So, um, women are just like real people?
What's the point of this thread?
Check the 1st sentence in the OP.
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Old 11-27-2013, 12:13 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Most women, like most people, are kind.

Most women, like most people, want to be treated with respect.
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Old 11-27-2013, 12:19 PM
 
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Most women aren't near my age.
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Old 11-27-2013, 12:20 PM
 
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This has been my experience with women and the experience of those around me, but I make no claim of this being generalizable to all women.

Women love great sex.

Women are attracted to irrational self confidence.

Women will decide within the first few minutes of knowing you if there is any sexual chemistry or if you are just a friend. If you do not take advantage of this window of opportunity or if you are not sexual enough with her you could be categorized into a prospective provider and she will withold sex from you for a predetermined period under the pretext of "not being like that" or "wanting to take things slow" while she bangs guys she considers sexy but not provider material the same night she meets them; all while subconsciously losing respect for you even though you continue treating her well and take her out on dates without sharing sex with her during the time she has defined.

You can extend the window of opportunity in some cases if her sexual interest level in you is sufficiently high and you ignore her instead of trying to be her friend combined with strong social proofing and indicators of high status aka "the celebrity effect".

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Old 11-27-2013, 12:23 PM
 
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This has been my experience with women and the experience of those around me, but I make no claim of this being generalizable to all women.

Women love great sex.

Women are attracted to irrational self confidence.

Women will decide within the first few minutes of knowing you if there is any sexual chemistry or if you are just a friend. If you do not take advantage of this window of opportunity or if you are not sexual enough with her you could be categorized into a prospective provider and she will withold sex from you under the pretext of "not being like that" or "wanting to take things slow" while she bangs guys she considers sexy but not provider material the same night she meets them; all while subconsciously losing respect for you.
Sounds like pick-up-art crap.
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Old 11-27-2013, 12:25 PM
 
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Sounds like pick-up-art crap.
Poisoning the well ad hominem fallacy.

Poisoning the Well

To commit a preemptive ad hominem attack against an opponent. That is, to prime the audience with adverse information about the opponent from the start, in an attempt to make your claim more acceptable, or discount the credibility of your opponent’s claim.
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As an audience member, if you allow any of this “poison” to affect how you evaluate the opponent’s argument, you are guilty of fallacious reasoning.

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Old 11-27-2013, 12:27 PM
 
Location: FL
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Women besides a few anatomical differences, really are no different than men.
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