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Sexually inexperienced, slightly socially awkward, unconfident, somewhat nerdy man at 30% bodyfat have? What sort of women should I expect to be attracted to me?
Dude, you *could* hit the gym and get into shape. You need to do it for your health anyway. Get into shape and you will be more confident. Get confident and with experience the social awkwardness will go away.
But of course this involves work, so most people will not be interested. But maybe you are the exception.
Sexually inexperienced, slightly socially awkward, unconfident, somewhat nerdy man at 30% bodyfat have? What sort of women should I expect to be attracted to me?
Enough already, Kid!
1) Lose the extra body fat. It's not that difficult to do.
2) You already know what sort of women might be attracted to you. One waved at you and said "hello". That should give you a clue.
Instead of constantly hand-wringing, get on a low-carb diet (see your local bookstore), go to the gym, and lose the weight. In 2 months, you could look like a new person, if you follow the recommendations closely. (If you'd done this the last time you posted about your weight, you'd be a new person already!)
Good luck!
btw, you forgot to include "CUTE" in your list. Nerdy's good, it means you have a brain. Nobody cares about "sexually inexperienced". At least not the kind of women who you'd want. Being the shy, cute, soft-spoken, thoughtful type, you're more the kind that women would approach. Give it time. Get out of your depression; that's what's killing your chances more than anything else.
Last edited by Ruth4Truth; 11-27-2013 at 02:53 PM..
1) Lose the extra body fat. It's not that difficult to do.
2) You already know what sort of women might be attracted to you. One waved at you and said "hello". That should give you a clue.
Instead of constantly hand-wringing, get on a low-carb diet (see your local bookstore), go to the gym, and lose the weight. In 2 months, you could look like a new person, if you follow the recommendations closely.
Good luck!
You make it sound so simple, Ruth. If it isn't that difficult, a lot of people wouldn't be overweight.
You make it sound so simple, Ruth. If it isn't that difficult, a lot of people wouldn't be overweight.
Dude isnt overweight.
He is skinny fat.
And he spends way too much time on this forum instead of making himself a better human being physically and mentally.
He is a healthy male in his mid 20's who refuses to improve his life, and instead sulks in his self pity.
He fails to understand that successful people are successful due to hard work, effort, intelligence, and personality. Granted, some are born with any combo of more than the next person, but people rise from even the ghetto to become successful all the time.
The kid lacks drive. He thinks it is supposed to come to him.
Change the socially awkward and unconfident parts, and you're half way home. In fact, everything you listed is easily addressed. Be your best self, for yourself first and think of the rest as a bonus.
You make it sound so simple, Ruth. If it isn't that difficult, a lot of people wouldn't be overweight.
Not true. A lot of people find it difficult because they don't get turned onto the right diet/exercise regime. The right program produces its own momentum and motivation. It takes a bit of willpower the first couple of weeks, but after that, it's a piece of cake (ha--so to speak). You gotta just "DO IT"! Get the rear in gear, read all the scientific info provided in the book/s, and just do it.
What sort of women should I expect to be attracted to me?
Blind...deaf...and/or dumb?
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