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Old 12-01-2013, 09:55 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville, Fl
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Well your question is flawed right out of the gate here. "Trailer park" implies a negative connotation. Everyone knows this. Then you go on to describe a setup most of us would enjoy. I have a motorhome valued at $325,000 and it rivals most modern homes built today. It's a luxury penthouse on wheels and most women who enter it for the first time and speechless. So do I think most women are turned off by luxury Rving? No! Do I think most educated sophistated, modern women would date a guy living in a true trailer park, IE in a mobile home? No, I do not.
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Old 12-01-2013, 10:50 AM
 
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Silliest question ever. I really don't care where a guy lives. I have my own effin' house, and I take care of myself because, you know, I'm an adult. My only financial requirements are that a guy be able to take care of himself and doesn't spend too stupidly.
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Old 12-01-2013, 11:10 AM
 
Location: USA
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Interesting question. The OPs example and some of the others demomstrated examples that were outside of the stereotypical poor Trailor person. I lived in a couple of trailor parks when I was right out of highschool that could be described as working poor or lower middle class followed by a couple of apartments that will probably a step down from the trailers. Even though I had that experience, I do find myself applying the typical stereotype when I hear it.
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Old 12-01-2013, 11:14 AM
 
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Trailer park people have money and they got cash money. They don't spend it on anything and they like to buy stuff with their own money.
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Old 12-01-2013, 11:27 AM
 
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why does the scene from trailer park boys involving **** jugs come to mind?
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Old 12-01-2013, 11:30 AM
 
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Silliest question ever. I really don't care where a guy lives. I have my own effin' house, and I take care of myself because, you know, I'm an adult. My only financial requirements are that a guy be able to take care of himself and doesn't spend too stupidly.

What if he does not have any money to spent and is in poverty ? The good news is for me i am going back to college so i can get out of poverty . I woman wants a guy that can support a family or at least help bring home the bacon.
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Old 12-01-2013, 01:03 PM
 
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why does the scene from trailer park boys involving **** jugs come to mind?
Why does every scene from Trailer Parks Boys come to mind in this thread?
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Old 12-01-2013, 01:20 PM
 
Location: NoVA
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I was discussing this stigma with a work friend of mine. I never really actually thought about it but yes I could see how it would be hard for him. Personally, I'd try to put the fact off as long as possible.


Now I admit trailer hood can mean many things. Could mean a pop-up pulled by your Gremlin or in his case, a $75,000 fifth wheel pulled by a $50,000 rig fully paid off. Guy has cash and mostly blows it on multiple vacations and traveling. Now he could buy a house tomorrow but just hasn't found the right girl to settle down with. I laugh and tell him because he lives in a trailer! In all seriousness, I envy his life. I haven't been thinking full blown trailer but smaller house and traveling more.


Should he buy a house to improve his "settling down" potential from women? He is 33, single, no kids.


What would your first impressions be? How much stigma we talking here?


I would think if a guy has a house = responsible, an apartment = getting his life together, a trailer = ????. What do women say?
As a female, I'd say "pass". Not because of the trailer etc.

I would feel terribly guilty being the female that caused him to end his good times when clearly, he doesn't want to, or he would have already.
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Old 12-01-2013, 02:15 PM
 
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What if he does not have any money to spent and is in poverty ? The good news is for me i am going back to college so i can get out of poverty . I woman wants a guy that can support a family or at least help bring home the bacon.
That's cute. I can support a family on my own if I decide to have kids. I'm not into fancy stuff, and my earning power grows every year. As I said, I require that a guy be able to handle his own expenses. Beyond that, I really don't care. From a material perspective, I would rather be with a guy who could do repairs on my home and car than a guy who earns big bucks at a desk job - so much less hassle and stress when you've got someone right in your home who can handle the expensive repairs that are sometimes necessary on a house. I tend to date guys who are handy. And I really don't care where they live.
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Old 12-01-2013, 02:59 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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"If men could get laid in cardboard boxes, they wouldn't buy houses." --Chris Rock
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