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Old 12-01-2013, 08:26 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Originally Posted by technev View Post
I recall reading in a thread here, a woman said, 'Dont call me hon.'

The guy apologized quickly. Is it gentlemanly behavior? Of course, it is. It is very sweet and sensitive.

But there's one problem. An alpha male would not have done that. Far from apologizing, he would have shown her the middle finger. And in so doing won her approval. That is strength, although the world may call it arrogance etc.

That's the difference between alpha and beta. Alpha takes without asking, beta waits for permission.
More PUA garbage.
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Old 12-01-2013, 08:39 AM
 
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He didn't attract me by "dominating" me. On the contrary, I found his behavior off putting.

But he's hot.
Because he's hot, you tolerate his dominating attitude, you let him fondle you. Ok, gotcha.
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Old 12-01-2013, 08:39 AM
 
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More PUA garbage.
Exactly. And considering this poster says he's from Sri Lanka, he knows an awful lot about PUA garbage, alpha males and Hollywood


I am a Sri Lankan and I don't understand dating

Is Hollywood destroying relationships?
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Old 12-01-2013, 08:40 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Originally Posted by technev View Post
I recall reading in a thread here, a woman said, 'Dont call me hon.'

The guy apologized quickly. Is it gentlemanly behavior? Of course, it is. It is very sweet and sensitive.

But there's one problem. An alpha male would not have done that. Far from apologizing, he would have shown her the middle finger. And in so doing won her approval. That is strength, although the world may call it arrogance etc.

That's the difference between alpha and beta. Alpha takes without asking, beta waits for permission.
The bolded is some stupid fantasy probably created and perpetuated on this site.

No. No woman approves of being given the finger after asking not to be condescended to.

That's not alpha. That's rude and stupid.
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Old 12-01-2013, 08:42 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Yours is a typical beta male response, lol.
You know...there are plenty of BDSM sites you can visit and discuss all your dreams of domination with the other weirdos.
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Old 12-01-2013, 08:49 AM
 
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Because he's hot, you tolerate his dominating attitude, you let him fondle you. Ok, gotcha.
He did not fondle me.
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Old 12-01-2013, 08:57 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I thought 'beta' died in the 80's at the hands of VHS?

Just kidding.

I'm just trying to calm the Chow down. He's chewing up everything in sight. Lol!
Yeah, I guess I did overact.

I probably need to step away from CD for a bit, I just can't take the stupidity anymore.

I'm still spinning from the silliness of the OP... I can't for the life of me understand blatant rudeness to be interpreted as being "tough" or alpha as the guy puts it.....

Where did these guys parents go wrong????
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Old 12-01-2013, 09:08 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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I prefer omega males. My beta fish was a pretty good pet, though.
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Old 12-01-2013, 09:22 AM
 
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Alphas use women when they're young and in their primes while women settle for the beta providers when their older
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Old 12-01-2013, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Yeah, I guess I did overact.

I probably need to step away from CD for a bit, I just can't take the stupidity anymore.

I'm still spinning from the silliness of the OP... I can't for the life of me understand blatant rudeness to be interpreted as being "tough" or alpha as the guy puts it.....

Where did these guys parents go wrong????

I had to back away from the relationship forum for a while cause of this lol


Anybody ever notice how not a single woman here in CDR forum ever seems to be impressed with these supposed "alpha" males, nor their point of view? lol
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