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View Poll Results: How much accuracy when judging a woman's sexual behavior from basic appearance? (Read post #1.)
No accuracy 28 58.33%
Slight accuracy 10 20.83%
Moderate accuracy 5 10.42%
High accuracy 5 10.42%
Voters: 48. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-02-2013, 09:15 PM
 
Location: all over the place (figuratively)
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It would be a mistake to make assumptions based on whether women from a conservative religious culture are conservative in their sexual behavior if they do or don't wear head coverings, etc. Are you aware that some Saudi women have their chauffeurs take them cruising to pick up men? And you can't assume a woman without a traditional head (or other) covering would be less conservative in her sexual behavior.
No, I hadn't heard that, but in a society where an extremely religious group is the minority, women wearing the garb are very likely to be true believers and to sexually behave as expected. Exceptions for some young women still living in their devout families of origin.

Sometimes you can judge a book its cover, and even if people think it's nonsense, they'll do it to others and be subjected to it themselves.
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Old 12-03-2013, 01:28 AM
 
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Stumbled upon this tonight. It's amusingly inflammatory...
24 Signs She’s A ****
and it also rings true to me and many men. He's very observant. It goes to show that little things can add up to big impressions. Albeit going by only the visual cues, its reliability probably is limited.
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Old 12-03-2013, 02:41 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Not the clothes. Not the makeup. Not the walk.

How boyish their figure is, is perhaps the only "scientific" sign (low waist to hip ratio).

The best sign in a relationship? How intimate you are in non-sexual ways.
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Old 12-03-2013, 10:16 AM
 
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The denial flows like the river. The "Married with Children" Kelly Bundy character - does anyone think the modern, real-life version of that would insist on waiting until marriage?

Also, I wouldn't expect any accuracy from WHR.
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Old 12-06-2013, 05:25 PM
 
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No correlation IMHO.

My friend and I, back in the day, would have fun with this. Looks-wise she was more on the hot/naughty side, me on the cute/innocent end. We would dress the same, classy, not slutty, and see what happens.

I would end up with the classier guys and she'd end up with the ones who just want sex. We'd even change up our looks, I'd dress more provocatively, her more demure. Same result.

It seems as though men think hot women means easy sex, cute women are more for dating. BTW, she was a virgin until she married because she believed that's how it should be. Me, I love sex and have it when I want.

I personally love that people misjudge me. It gives me the upper hand. And besides, it's fun shocking men who think I'm innocent.
I went to a baseball game with a tanktop and cleavage and a group of fans(2 guys and 1 girl) were heckling me saying to each other I was "asking" for it, so I flaunted the jewelry with logo of a neighboring opposing baseball team at them and that REALLY shut them up!! LOL :-) They knew that if they drew more attention to it, the other fans and stadium guards would come over to wonder why quiet "little ol' me" was being harrassed by a bunch of hooligans! The other fans who were close by who were attracted by the goings on didn't care and many of them were pretty amused I stood up against the idiots. :-)
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Old 12-06-2013, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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No correlation IMHO.

My friend and I, back in the day, would have fun with this. Looks-wise she was more on the hot/naughty side, me on the cute/innocent end. We would dress the same, classy, not slutty, and see what happens.

I would end up with the classier guys and she'd end up with the ones who just want sex. We'd even change up our looks, I'd dress more provocatively, her more demure. Same result.

It seems as though men think hot women means easy sex, cute women are more for dating. BTW, she was a virgin until she married because she believed that's how it should be. Me, I love sex and have it when I want.

I personally love that people misjudge me. It gives me the upper hand. And besides, it's fun shocking men who think I'm innocent.
I agree - no correlation... I look sexy and I like sex... LOL. My friend and I used to do this experiment also, except I've been told I have that "sexy" look - whatever that is. My friend is this cute, petite Catholic girl with freckles and dimples. BTW, I am Italian and she is Irish. She could get away with dressing provocatively and it was "stylish" and if I tried it, it could come across as way too sexy.

I never dressed too provocatively, but was approached too often. It got to the point that I starting wearing baggy clothes that obscured my figure so I'd be taken more seriously. My fun was shocking my guy when he figured out I had a pretty good body under all those demure clothes.
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Old 12-07-2013, 12:13 AM
 
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Some men assume a lot. They are wrong.
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Old 12-07-2013, 12:33 AM
 
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I've seen dumber polls than this one, but...No, never mind, actually...Now that I think about it, this is actually the dumbest poll I've ever seen.
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Old 12-07-2013, 06:07 AM
 
Location: Phoenix Arizona
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I've been proven very wrong when I assume how a person is sexually just by their appearance. I once thought this girl I dated with all the tattoos would be a freak in bed but she was totally timid and on the opposite end of the spectrum I've dated the church going librarian type that left me weak and wobbly after our sexual romp.

Just can't judge a book by it's cover is all....
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Old 12-07-2013, 09:36 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I've been proven very wrong when I assume how a person is sexually just by their appearance. I once thought this girl I dated with all the tattoos would be a freak in bed but she was totally timid and on the opposite end of the spectrum I've dated the church going librarian type that left me weak and wobbly after our sexual romp.

Just can't judge a book by it's cover is all....
Finally, a guy who knows real women (as opposed to theoretical women) and is grounded in reality!
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