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There are many plain-looking (according to other men) women that I find attractive, but as a young man, I find it a bit difficult to develop attraction where there is none. Some say alcohol helps, but, I do not wish to think that is a primary (or even secondary) factor. How do you develop this sexual attraction?
Why would you want to force it if you're not attracted to someone? That is, unless you're just out for meaningless sex. If that's the case, I've got nothing for you. I never did understand hook-up culture.
Why would you want to force it if you're not attracted to someone? That is, unless you're just out for meaningless sex. If that's the case, I've got nothing for you. I never did understand hook-up culture.
I don't wish to just hook-up. I want to be naturally attracted to more women.
There are many plain-looking (according to other men) women that I find attractive, but as a young man, I find it a bit difficult to develop attraction where there is none. Some say alcohol helps, but, I do not wish to think that is a primary (or even secondary) factor. How do you develop this sexual attraction?
um, I dunno, Kid. I always thought that personality was what causes attraction. Brains and a good heart are hot. I guess that's just me.... :-/
guy speaking, but be an attractive person, thats how. Have a sexy, edgy personality. A sexy edge, the opposite of neutered. Own your sexuality instead of being ashamed of it/trying to hide it. Be willing to throw stuff out there, stop caring so much about getting laid(counter intuitive but true, if you want it/need it then women subconsciously assume you aren't worthy of it), have fun. Could go on for hours but you get the point.
edit: wait, were you asking how you generate attraction for a girl where there is none? because you don't do that, you just aren't attracted to her and that's that. That can change but it does so on its own, not by your direct input.
um, I dunno, Kid. I always thought that personality was what causes attraction. Brains and a good heart are hot. I guess that's just me.... :-/
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