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Originally Posted by fleetiebelle
A date is a specifically planned event where just the two of you can be together and focus on each other and your relationship (which doesn't necessarily have to include sex.) It's not grabbing Chinese on the fly after you've gone to Costco.
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Great points!
I think a date is something you plan for, something that isn't a part of everyday life, something that involves leaving the house. Basically it boils down to effort. It's not tied to how much you spend on it either.
I think if someone expresses that they'd like to go on a "real date", it sounds like they may feel things are too settled and routine. A date is fun, shakes things up, but not something you'd want to do all the time.
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