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Well back when there were single women in my social circle before all my friends were married with kids i tried that none of them were attracted to me
That's all you've tried? Getting with women in your social circle? And you've already given up? You haven't even begun to try! There's so much more to socializing than that!
That's all you've tried? Getting with women in your social circle? And you've already given up? You haven't even begun to try! There's so much more to socializing than that!
I think trying for women in my social circle is a good indicator you can let attraction grow and build an clearly i still couldnt create attraction over a long period i dont see why the things you mentioned would be any different..
That's all you've tried? Getting with women in your social circle? And you've already given up? You haven't even begun to try! There's so much more to socializing than that!
Yeah, OP, how dare you? Ruth insists that you throw yourself on the tracks again, and again, and again, and again, and again until you have found a woman that will accept you as her life accessory.
You're doing the right thing, buddy.
Think like the Hindus. Nirvana (heaven) is the freedom from all want and desire. It's an admirable thing to shoot for.
I think trying for women in my social circle is a good indicator you can let attraction grow and build an clearly i still couldnt create attraction over a long period i dont see why the things you mentioned would be any different..
It's not like you join one activity and the love of your life appears. It's about circulating as much as you can (trying a couple of different things at a time) to see who turns up. It's a giant game of chance. If you don't play, you can't win. It just seems premature for you to throw in the towel without trying all the options available. As people say, it's a numbers game. How many women passed through your social circle--10? 12? Experts say finding someone you click with is a 1/100 shot. That's a lot of weeding and sifting that needs to go on. But if you make it part of your everyday life, the task doesn't seem so overwhelming. Participating in hobbies or volunteering for a cause is something that should be enjoyable and enriching to you anyway.
Quitting is a logical response to his circumstances, it's just not one that you happen to like.
Quitting is an option. But it takes a special kind of person to do that.
I know people who have quit. They don't need social contact and are kind of loners. They're kind of off the map. If you think you can handle it, go for it.
It's not like you join one activity and the love of your life appears. It's about circulating as much as you can (trying a couple of different things at a time) to see who turns up. It's a giant game of chance. If you don't play, you can't win. It just seems premature for you to throw in the towel without trying all the options available. As people say, it's a numbers game. How many women passed through your social circle--10? 12? Experts say finding someone you click with is a 1/100 shot. That's a lot of weeding and sifting that needs to go on. But if you make it part of your everyday life, the task doesn't seem so overwhelming. Participating in hobbies or volunteering for a cause is something that should be enjoyable and enriching to you anyway.
Oh well. *sighhhh*
Im sorry im not built to got through a hundred rejections before i can even get a number..call me sensitive but that would be too much for me
Its not in my personality to play the numbers game and be overly agressive im shy and laid back
Im sorry im not built to got through a hundred rejections before i can even get a number..call me sensitive but that would be too much for me
Its not in my personality to play the numbers game and be overly agressive im shy and laid back
Shy and laid back people still go out and do things.
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