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Old 12-23-2013, 03:15 PM
 
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I'm going to guess that the OP has never had sex in his life.

 
Old 12-23-2013, 03:24 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Abortion is never the best option, especially for the child who is the OP's own flesh and blood.
 
Old 12-23-2013, 03:28 PM
 
Location: NJ
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I don't believe in morals, but then it's immoral IMO to force her. I learn more pro-choice, but then it's her decision to make.
I am pro choice, and find the OP's request reprehensible.

It should be her decision. The emotional baggage from deciding either way will be with her a lifetime, but him..15 minutes.

Truthfully, she would be wise to dump him.
 
Old 12-23-2013, 03:30 PM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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I don't understand what she sees in you, but I hope she has the baby and takes you to the cleaners.
 
Old 12-23-2013, 03:32 PM
 
Location: NJ
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My life is at stake here.
as is ANOTHER life.
 
Old 12-23-2013, 03:33 PM
 
Location: NJ
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I don't understand what she sees in you, but I hope she has the baby and takes you to the cleaners.

 
Old 12-23-2013, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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. And selfishness isn't all bad. It's called looking after your own interest, which is in general (not to extremes) a good trait for an adult to have.

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Really, Selfishness is a childish trait. Adults look after those that they love even more than their own interests. That is what it means to be an adult. Your family should be your biggest interest. Your kids the woman that gave birth to your kids, that is the most important interest that a man should have. It is so telling why divorce is such an easy thing to do. Many have not realized that they have to take care of others to be a real man. Others first should take presidence over me first.
 
Old 12-23-2013, 03:49 PM
 
Location: Portland Metro
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To all of you who have posted such earnest responses to the OP, good for you for responding, either to help or chastize this "individual". I'm sure you all felt like you made a difference, and it certainly generated some interesting points.

But I am definitely in the camp that this OP doesn't write in a way that would make this story believable. It sounds to me like a Dear Abby letter (which I believe are mostly made up or at least embellished upon), but with even less nuance.
 
Old 12-23-2013, 03:59 PM
 
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No, based on the OPs attitudes, it would be a start at justice. If this thread was for real, that is.

And the quote was "squeezes you for every Penny she can get". A minor difference, but it implies what she would be legally allowed, as opposed to using the word "last" which implies excess.
That's because court child support calculators are already excessive. It sounds like he is already violent, he could supplement his income with illicit activities.
 
Old 12-23-2013, 04:01 PM
 
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Could be even more than 18 years, depending on the state. Oh, I do hope they live in NJ! (If "they" are real)
I would rather mine coal in Russia than live in New Jersey. I think parts of Somolia might be worse than New Jersey though, so they have that going for them. That could be their ad campaing, "hey, its better than being in Somoalia" lol.
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