Do you resent not getting it during uni age? (date, Asians, Chinese)

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by Lucario

What do you mean?

There's been a lot of posts lately from people who say that they are ugly, unattractive, and that it is the reason they can't get a relationship.



I will tell you this, I was "unattractive" and such. All I had to do was get myself in better shape (physically and mentally).

Before I knew it, I had better luck in that department. I am pretty sure that you are not as physically unattractive as you think. For the average person, any physical problem can be fixed without surgery.

[Lucario]

Originally Posted by zentropa

Very long story mercifully short, he believes that staying in a highly toxic marriage is better for his children than having two happily separated individuals who coparent and share custody equally. He has been posting about it for years and years.

Actually, I want to be happily separated (in the sense that I'm away from her) and I want to coparent and share equal custody. I'm just not sure that can happen.

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by zentropa

Very long story mercifully short, he believes that staying in a highly toxic marriage is better for his children than having two happily separated individuals who coparent and share custody equally. He has been posting about it for years and years.

This is actually a messy situation. Ideally, this works.

With my experiences as a step-child, I'd say the best case scenario would be if both parents can remain single and just co-parent the child like you say. But it doesn't always work out that way.


This is really messy for the children.



Best of Luck to you, Lucario.

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by Lucario

If you marry someday you may come to understand what I am saying.

I hope not.


Your situation doesn't sound like something you'd want someone else to understand.

[Lucario]

Originally Posted by TJenkins602

I hope not.


Your situation doesn't sound like something you'd want someone else to understand.

You're right. I wouldn't wish this on you or anyone else.

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by Lucario

In terms of this, I have been away from gym/working out so long that it's gonna take me a long time to get that part of it back together. But I will.

Rebuild whenever you can. You can achieve it.

[superdav]

I was "gettin it "back then and I'm still " gettin it " now lol
Just with a higher class. Own bed instead of back of the car or alley way , nice weekend trips instead of a run to the drive in theater , and actually pay for stuff lol

[Slanderous]

Originally Posted by accencao

Some will get offended as others are moving onto their territory (lol..) but then do you resent not getting it when aged 18-23 or so?

I don't believe in regrets, but I resent not doing so.

You're resentful toward yourself?

[JoeCollege]

Most people aren't celibate in college.

[Lucario]

Originally Posted by JoeCollege

Most people aren't celibate in college.

And most of those who are celibate are involuntarily so.