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Old 12-31-2013, 06:07 PM
 
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I like an older man. I'm twenty. He appears to be about thirty or thirty five. I'm hispanic. He's white. He's a bus driver. I'm a passenger on his bus.

He's serious when he's driving. He answers passengers questions' but he hardly looks at them when they talk to him or when he talks to them. He always looks straight ahead when he's on the driver's seat. He's serious on his bus.

His breaks are about five minutes. I want to approach him on his break. I want to try to talk to him. I think he looks cool, interesting, and handsome. I want to know his name.

I'm twenty. I don't think he's in his twenties. Should I approach him? Or should I not? Is it okay to have and express interest in him? Or is it not? Do I have a green light? A yellow light? A red light?
It's fine. Go talk to him. I mean, what's he gonna do? Kick you off the bus?
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Old 12-31-2013, 10:42 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Ask him out!!!!!!! €▲▶◀↑↓;-):-D◀↓:-D→☆:'(
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Old 12-31-2013, 11:28 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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No reason not to approach him. I've been hit on by a few women. I married a couple of them. A few others I had to turn down for one reason or another, but I always appreciated their interest in me, and to be honest, I probably remember every one of them. I've kicked myself a few times for turning down some of those offers too, so what's to lose? You either get a date with the guy, or you don't get the date but earn a permanent place in his mind as a pleasant memory. (And in those memories, you'll always be a cute 20-year-old, even 50 years from now!)
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Old 12-31-2013, 11:33 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Well?
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Old 01-02-2014, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Get on the bus wearing nothing but a trench coat. Flash him. But please do it while he is pulled over...not cruising down the road!
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Old 01-02-2014, 12:21 PM
 
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Now that's a fantastic way to get his attention !

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Get on the bus wearing nothing but a trench coat. Flash him. But please do it while he is pulled over...not cruising down the road!
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Old 01-02-2014, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I like an older man. I'm twenty. He appears to be about thirty or thirty five. I'm hispanic. He's white. He's a bus driver. I'm a passenger on his bus.

He's serious when he's driving. He answers passengers questions' but he hardly looks at them when they talk to him or when he talks to them. He always looks straight ahead when he's on the driver's seat. He's serious on his bus.

His breaks are about five minutes. I want to approach him on his break. I want to try to talk to him. I think he looks cool, interesting, and handsome. I want to know his name.

I'm twenty. I don't think he's in his twenties. Should I approach him? Or should I not? Is it okay to have and express interest in him? Or is it not? Do I have a green light? A yellow light? A red light?
You're getting way too hung up on the age difference. Approach him in the same way you would approach any other man in whom you are interested. Just like any other man, he'll either be interested or he won't be.
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Old 01-03-2014, 04:26 AM
 
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I like an older man. I'm twenty. He appears to be about thirty or thirty five. I'm hispanic. He's white. He's a bus driver. I'm a passenger on his bus.

He's serious when he's driving. He answers passengers questions' but he hardly looks at them when they talk to him or when he talks to them. He always looks straight ahead when he's on the driver's seat. He's serious on his bus.

His breaks are about five minutes. I want to approach him on his break. I want to try to talk to him. I think he looks cool, interesting, and handsome. I want to know his name.

I'm twenty. I don't think he's in his twenties. Should I approach him? Or should I not? Is it okay to have and express interest in him? Or is it not? Do I have a green light? A yellow light? A red light?
If there's no ring on his finger then, wink and strike up a conversation. If he likes you then he will let you know.
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Old 01-03-2014, 04:34 AM
 
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I like an older man. I'm twenty. He appears to be about thirty or thirty five. I'm hispanic. He's white. He's a bus driver. I'm a passenger on his bus.

He's serious when he's driving. He answers passengers questions' but he hardly looks at them when they talk to him or when he talks to them. He always looks straight ahead when he's on the driver's seat. He's serious on his bus.

His breaks are about five minutes. I want to approach him on his break. I want to try to talk to him. I think he looks cool, interesting, and handsome. I want to know his name.

I'm twenty. I don't think he's in his twenties. Should I approach him? Or should I not? Is it okay to have and express interest in him? Or is it not? Do I have a green light? A yellow light? A red light?
I was 31 when I met my wife who was 18. We've been together 38 years now.

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