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Old 12-30-2013, 01:33 PM
 
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No you misunderstood, I said I won't be able to date until I finish therapy. And who knows when that will be. Depressing thought.
What does your therapist say?
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:13 PM
 
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Porn and CD-forum.
I always post here when I'm at my absolute lowest.
Writing crap to you people is my way of therapy I guess.

So like batman is the hero Gotham deserves but not the one it needs,

I guess CD is the therapist I deserve but not the one I need...you know?
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:25 PM
 
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Porn and CD-forum.
I always post here when I'm at my absolute lowest.
Writing crap to you people is my way of therapy I guess.

So like batman is the hero Gotham deserves but not the one it needs,

I guess CD is the therapist I deserve but not the one I need...you know?
You ought to quit porn and masturbation. They are impure things that are bad for the mind. Being sexually frustrated is good for motivating yourself to become a better mate.
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:29 PM
 
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You ought to quit porn and masturbation. They are impure things that are bad for the mind. Being sexually frustrated is good for motivating yourself to become a better mate.
That was the smartest thing you ever posted I have to agree for the most part.

I am not dating because trying to become successful in the game called life. On top of that no girl will date a loser with a dead end job and that all he does.
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:30 PM
 
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You ought to quit porn and masturbation. They are impure things that are bad for the mind. Being sexually frustrated is good for motivating yourself to become a better mate.
Being sexually frustrated just makes you sexually frustrated and depressed. Better to release then subject yourself to that. When did guys become so interested in other guys' porn watching habits? How does it effect you?
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:46 PM
 
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Meh... not really.
We both told him to get rid of it... that is all that matters!
But he will still be confused, and still refuse to get help, and still post the same things every week.
Uh oh, we better be careful

We might become like his parents...

That's some baggage we DON'T want .
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Old 12-30-2013, 02:51 PM
 
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You ought to quit porn and masturbation. They are impure things that are bad for the mind. Being sexually frustrated is good for motivating yourself to become a better mate.
HK, repeat this to your therapist. This is not healthy.
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Old 12-30-2013, 03:09 PM
 
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There is something terribly depressing about being around caged animals sentenced to die.
There are many "NO KILL SHELTERS" around the USA.
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Old 12-30-2013, 03:27 PM
 
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Being sexually frustrated just makes you sexually frustrated and depressed. Better to release then subject yourself to that. When did guys become so interested in other guys' porn watching habits? How does it effect you?
When you masturbate before bed you fall asleep stress free and satisfied.

So I quit doing that to discover all of my flaws.

Let's face it:

I have a tiny penis
I am poor in bed
I am fat
I wear hearing aids
My sense of humor sucks
I have bad conversation skills and material
I am a frequent liar
I did not have a good childhood and parents (a quality that women seek for indicators of husband material)
I have PTSD
I do not make enough money
I am a cynic
I am bitter
I am a negative person
I have no charisma
I am not grateful enough
My childhood friends are drug addicts that don't talk to me anymore
I can occasionally forget my manners
I can be selfish
I have depression


It will be a long time, if ever, before all of this is fixed and I become the ideal dating material, however, I only realized this after quitting. I truly am a flawed piece of **** less desired than some of the criminals out there.

Going to bed frustrated motivates you to fix that, if not crawl to bed and browse the internet.
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Old 12-30-2013, 04:08 PM
 
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You ought to quit porn and masturbation. They are impure things that are bad for the mind. Being sexually frustrated is good for motivating yourself to become a better mate.
You are correct.
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