I get the feeling we now have to accept others with different sexual attitudes (date, boyfriend)
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Get over it?? Just like that? I've only been with 1 man in my life in a relationship so someone with a wild past wouldn't be my comfort zone to be honest.
I'm just demanding the same in return: a ''relationship only'' type man and I'm sure they do exist else if they don't, then I don't mind staying single and travelling on my own and educating myself with historical cultures.
You're honestly telling me you'd be attracted to a grown man who'd only managed to go all the way with one woman in his life? See, I just don't believe what you're telling me.
I am not one to tell people to get over their sexual preferences. Your post makes me curious, though, something that had not occurred to me before. If a man has a low count because he only had "special" sex, wouldn't lots of special sex feel more threatening than lots of unspecial sex? A man who has had a long-term relationship knows the other woman very intimately in all ways, and they may have had sex hundreds or thousands of times.
Food for thought for me!! Interesting!!
To OP; there are a ton of guys on here who haven't had sex yet, and or have a low count if that is important to you. And this is a tiny fragment of what is out there.
You're honestly telling me you'd be attracted to a grown man who'd only managed to go all the way with one woman in his life? See, I just don't believe what you're telling me.
To OP; there are a ton of guys on here who haven't had sex yet, and or have a low count if that is important to you. And this is a tiny fragment of what is out there.
Well at least you gave me some hope. They do exist after all. I get tired of hearing the ''Well if there is love, that's all that matters, it's all in the past and you have to accept him for who he is now''. Nope, I'm not willing to just settle and compromise for the sake of love.
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I just can't imagine trying to deal with such a contrast in sexual attitude, someone who took sex lightly in the past. In the long term I don't think ''opposites attract'' work out.
Well at least you gave me some hope. They do exist after all. I get tired of hearing the ''Well if there is love, that's all that matters, it's all in the past and you have to accept him for who he is now''. Nope, I'm not willing to just settle and compromise for the sake of love.
I agree with this. I'd like to be sexually compatible with my SO (and on the same playing field), if he has been with hundreds/thousands more people I would think my conservatism wouldn't be enough for him.
In general, I would rather have a man who has sowed his wild oats before settling down.
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I agree with this. I'd like to be sexually compatible with my SO (and on the same playing field), if he has been with hundreds/thousands more people I would think my conservatism wouldn't be enough for him.
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