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Old 01-10-2014, 08:46 PM
 
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We've talk about it, we want each other to go on be happy... All we asked of each other was to make sure our children received our things not the new partners, at our own death everything would go our children, land , home etc, etc... but have no issues with leaving the new partner with something we built together...... Going on 32 years in June...
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Old 01-10-2014, 09:20 PM
 
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I think it's ok to talk about it, but it's going to far to fantasize aloud about taking a young spouse, and any details along those lines. Besides, think about it. If one spouse were to say it WOULDN"T be ok for the other to move on, how would they enforce that? If they're gone, they're gone. If the surviving spouse is fortunate enough to find happiness, why would they stop themselves from enjoying that?

OP, would you want your wife to remain alone for the rest of her life, if you had an untimely death? I hope not. Not that you could stop her.
Nope but even though I get along with her ex she could do better.

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Old 01-11-2014, 10:01 AM
 
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Me and my wife was in a certain area. She knows I like the way the women are. I asked her Lord forbid if she should pass if she thought it would be wrong to get involved with women in this area even though we have different beliefs? She said no they would be good.

Only thing we disagreed on was age. She was thinking much older and I was thinking younger so we compromised

Is it wrong to talk such things over with your SO?

brushrunner
Never wrong brushrunner....always right.
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Old 01-11-2014, 06:03 PM
 
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Me and my wife was in a certain area. She knows I like the way the women are. I asked her Lord forbid if she should pass if she thought it would be wrong to get involved with women in this area even though we have different beliefs? She said no they would be good.

Only thing we disagreed on was age. She was thinking much older and I was thinking younger so we compromised

Is it wrong to talk such things over with your SO?

brushrunner
No.

Now, if you two were hiking and she said, "if I push you off this cliff, I could replace you in a week." Then I would be concerned.
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