Can an ugly guy get a girlfriend? (wives, marrying, social)
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I am not rich, do not drive a fancy car (in fact, I don't have a car at all, lol), good job (not ceo or anything), decent looks (no 6 pack, no chiseled jaw). Yet women come to me many times, I ask them and they hardly ever say no. Make of it what you will.
My conclusion, however, is that women can easily spot a sincere, nice person - and if you are such a person, you should have no problem. But if you're pretending to get the girl, then girls can spot that too. And reject you for being insincere. So it is all about being authentic.
I know you'll vehemently deny all this, accuse me of being a liar etc. That is okay. I am used to it. All I am saying is, women don't see things the way men do. Men think in terms of utility, profit, and so on. So good looks, money, status matter to them. Women don't. They see what's inside - they are more spiritual that way. Women place more importance on values, virtues, humor, etc., so if a man really has them (not pretending), women can spot such a man effortlessly - even without a conversation, even without spending time.
So my advice is: be good and women will come to you. It works for me, it should work for others too.
Well, that would explain the apparent rise of my market value.
If you are ugly why don't you stop feeling sorry for yourself and try to improve your appearance and style. And then approach ANY AND EVERY girl you find attractive. You will get rejected a lot but eventually you will get better at talking to women and be able to charm one enough that she will let you put your dink in her.
Mastery over this is not going to be linear...you have peaks, drops, and plateaus.
Don't listen to these other guys talking about race and other nonsense. Keep your frame internally controlled instead of externally.
Then try to approach white women. Many white woman likes black guys.
Terrible, terrible advice and will mainly result in the police being contacted for potential robbery and or rape.
There have been countless studies done that disprove your claim, so there's nothing to add here.
Finally, the type of white women who explicitly state they like black men are into the stereotypical ghetto thugs or "bad boys", and would therefore not at all be into stable and law-abiding black men like the OP.
My first boyfriend I considered unattractive when we first met. After I got to know him I found him extremely attractive because he was so funny with the best personality ever. To this day I wonder how things would've turned out if we would've met and dated a little later in life rather than at such a young age.
If you are ugly why don't you stop feeling sorry for yourself and try to improve your appearance and style. And then approach ANY AND EVERY girl you find attractive.
Don't listen to these other guys talking about race and other nonsense. Keep your frame internally controlled instead of externally.
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Originally Posted by Astute
Terrible, terrible advice and will mainly result in the police being contacted for potential robbery and or rape.
First of all, I'm sure you are not as ugly as you think you are.
Even if you are less than average looking, plenty of ugly people get girlfriends every day because 1) they don't sulk about it 2) they have other attractive qualities 3) they take actions to ameliorate themselves and go after what they want (and who they wan)
Also... if you don't think you can get a sexy/top model girlfriend, that's fine, most guys struggle with that anyway, ugly or not. Would you go for someone whose inner beauty shines more than their appearance?
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