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You pretty much said what I wanted to say. And let's keep it all the way real if a man got 600 messages and found all those women not up to par people would say he has insanely high standards and thinks he's too good lol(which would probably be true)
Id much rather have to sift trough hundreds of women intersted in me then have no one.
You still don't get it.
The point is that women get a ton of messages from men who are not interested in THEM. They are interested in VAGINAS.
That would be like you getting scores of messages from women who said only, "hey, how much you make?" Those women would not be interested in YOU. They would be interested in your WALLET.
I think you missed his point Lilac110. I'll try and explain what I think he's getting at. What he's saying is that you actually do get quantity and quality. If you have the time to go through all the emails, you will find quality guys. The problem is, women, much like men, still want instant gratification. You want to open your inbox and have the handsome man waiting on you. You don't want to go through the countless emails daily, actually grinding and doing work. Dating takes work from men and women. If women want to find the quality throughout the quantity, then you have to work for it. It's not just going to appear in front of you.
If quality men are working to message the women good messages, those women should want to weed through the bad messages to get to the good ones. If you meet and you're a match, all the work you put into it is moot anyways.
??? Define quality. A common perception is that quality standards have two primary components:
The point is that women get a ton of messages from men who are not interested in THEM. They are interested in VAGINAS.
That would be like you getting scores of messages from women who said only, "hey, how much you make?" Those women would not be interested in YOU. They would be interested in your WALLET.
I hope someday you will fully grasp the frustration of the men who actually ARE interested in YOU while being rejected by women interested in HOT and MONEY.
The point is that women get a ton of messages from men who are not interested in THEM. They are interested in VAGINAS.
That would be like you getting scores of messages from women who said only, "hey, how much you make?" Those women would not be interested in YOU. They would be interested in your WALLET.
You don't think its the same for guys? Guys how many wemon turned you down for things you had no control over at that split second? Uhm not tall enough, don't have six pack abs, not successful enough, shy, awkward etc etc? Or how many women have broken up with you for falling short on something that really isnt important to you or isn't you? So guys deal with meeting wemon who really are not interested in them, but only interested in there ideal of prince charming (hence the girls who try to change you once you get involved) or just want there ideal of a LTR. Whats worse is women wont admit it but they cleverly call it high standards, which has
The point is that women get a ton of messages from men who are not interested in THEM. They are interested in VAGINAS.
That would be like you getting scores of messages from women who said only, "hey, how much you make?" Those women would not be interested in YOU. They would be interested in your WALLET.
Most dating sites ask income questions, some include income in profiles, while some don't display it publicly but do factor income into whatever matching functions the site does.
The point is that women get a ton of messages from men who are not interested in THEM. They are interested in VAGINAS.
That would be like you getting scores of messages from women who said only, "hey, how much you make?" Those women would not be interested in YOU. They would be interested in your WALLET.
Not all of them would be like that though, and some women are looking for something casual
But like I said before id gladly go through those messages to get to the quality. Which is the point of my first post in this thread
The men who get no messages don't have this option lol
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