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Old 01-16-2014, 10:20 AM
 
Location: New York, NY
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I've been on two dates with her so far, and have planned another one for early next week. We had a brief kiss at the end of the first date, and then held hands/kissed for longer on the second date. We also seem to flirt rather consistently.

Since I pretty much have no experience at this point, I have no idea how to escalate it further. Does a woman typically give off signs that she wants to do more? Is there a best way to escalate things further? I'm fine with not rushing things; I just want to know when/if the time comes so I'm not completely clueless.
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Old 01-16-2014, 10:32 AM
 
Location: Terra
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It just happens man... there's no clear cut way to tell. Sometimes you'll get lucky and the girl will rip off her clothes yelling "DO ME NOW!!!!"
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Old 01-16-2014, 10:38 AM
 
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I've been on two dates with her so far, and have planned another one for early next week. We had a brief kiss at the end of the first date, and then held hands/kissed for longer on the second date. We also seem to flirt rather consistently.

Since I pretty much have no experience at this point, I have no idea how to escalate it further. Does a woman typically give off signs that she wants to do more? Is there a best way to escalate things further? I'm fine with not rushing things; I just want to know when/if the time comes so I'm not completely clueless.

Every woman is different - there is no guide. All women have different signs and signals. No two are alike. There is no manual and there is no guide. You can't judge all women on the basis of one. You can only judge what to do with this one specific one.
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Old 01-16-2014, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Lexington, SC
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It is a feeling you will have, if you are in tune with her feelings and how she is responding to your touch, you will know if you can proceed. Proceed very slowly and be prepared to stop at the first sign of her being uncomfortable, Always respect her position and allow her to decide how far and how fast
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Old 01-16-2014, 10:56 AM
 
Location: New York, NY
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It is a feeling you will have, if you are in tune with her feelings and how she is responding to your touch, you will know if you can proceed. Proceed very slowly and be prepared to stop at the first sign of her being uncomfortable, Always respect her position and allow her to decide how far and how fast
This makes sense. Since she's seemed pretty receptive to everything so far, would it be appropriate to try for a mid-date kiss next time, and then maybe see how slow escalation at the end is received?
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Old 01-16-2014, 11:00 AM
 
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Which end?
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Old 01-16-2014, 11:01 AM
 
Location: New York, NY
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Oh woops, sorry for the lack of clarity. I meant at the end of the date.
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Old 01-16-2014, 11:22 AM
 
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If she starts singing Sexual Healing you can take it as a green light.
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Old 01-16-2014, 11:24 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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start with a mammogram and she'll let you know if you can give her a Pap smear.
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Old 01-16-2014, 11:24 AM
 
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Wait until you hear the beep.
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