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IF you mean this in romantic terms, then you simply have to MAKE up your mind!
Who the hell is MORE important to you???
Trying to have both is not FAIR to yourself, or them!
If you're in a committed relationship, then it's an emotional affair (at least). Then you should just come clean & end it with one party or the other.
I'm not sure if in any other situation someone needs to know. If it's an ex or another person you're dating - just focus on why it ended/is ending with them, not someone else coming into the picture.
Then there's the far less common scenario when you're in an open or poly relationship, where this would be fine, and little more than another topic of conversation.
Then there's the far less common scenario when you're in an open or poly relationship, where this would be fine, and little more than another topic of conversation.
In theory, yes. In practice, not necessarily. Emotions usually trump logic.
Be direct, avoid gratuitous comments and accept that there's no pleasant way out of it. And don't linger, say what you have to, allow a moment for a response and then leave (and do it in person, don't be a coward and handle it via phone/email).
"I care deeply for you, but there is someone else."
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